Submission Roleplay Fun

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As I write this, the house next door is being renovated. If you listened to them, you would think a gay porno was being shot outside my window. Lots of laughing and group camaraderie with one poor guy the sub making pained, grunting noises. Just when I think the mean top is about to ease up, the sound of an electric drill starts, and the guys start laughing again. Construction worker role play is a great group role play to get into if you can conjure up some buddies and orange vests — and you can even redo your kitchen in the process.

You know the scenario: The gay porn site Fraternity X has capitalized on the fantasy of frat boy hazing. All their videos have the same basic narrative: When my ex-boyfriends and I visited new cities where no one knew us, we would sometimes say we were brothers. It was funny sometimes, a lark — other times, it was really sexy.

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At the local gay watering hole, we would tell the guys interested in us that we were related and see how many of them believed it. Many guys have a brother fantasy.

This is an easy one to role play in the bedroom, and there are endless imagined scenarios available to you: Big brother is visiting home from college and has to share your bedroom for a night. You two are close and like to wrestle, and one day the wrestling goes a little too far when one of you gets excited. Anonymous public hookups are rapidly becoming a thing of the past. Our mediated, digitalized hookup culture has all but replaced discreet staring contests in the gym and public cruising in parks and bathrooms.

Many formerly cruisey places are more heavily watched now, and your success rate is inevitably lower. Also, some guys have some discomfort with completely anonymous sex. One solution to all these is to do anonymous role play with someone you know. If you want to play in public, plan to meet up somewhere that you are fairly certain will offer some privacy.

If your fantasy is to anonymously pick up a stranger and take him back home, this is easier: Another common gay porn scenario: For obvious reasons, this scenario works great for group role play as well. Who says the coach only has one MVP? Like many scenes in the world of kink, puppy play at its simplest is a form of role play. Like all forms of role play, puppy play is as simple or complex as you make it.

Some pups — myself included — love the pup headspace and extend it past the bedroom into daily life. Pups are automatically submissive to handlers. A good pup loves getting scratches, treats sexual or otherwise , and led around on a leash by a handler. And while this is certainly not always the case, handlers are typically tops and pups bottoms alpha pups being a common exception — see number Puppy play is implicitly, if not explicitly, a sex role play, but some pups and handlers have removed the sex aspect of it and turned puppy play into a practice more akin to yoga — a de-stressing activity that frees them from the daily rigor of life.

There can be a therapeutic aspect to adult pretend games, if only because they remove you from your daily headspace and allow you to be imaginative. We know the positive effects that playing has on children, but few cultures have spaces for adults to do the same. This is like puppy play, but the submissive guy acts like a cat. This features of this role play are endless: Pony play follows the same basic form as the other pet play types.

Human ponies love neighing, wearing bits in their mouths ones designed specifically for human pony play, as actual metal bits will break teeth , and being taken for a ride. The rubber, latex, and leather gear for pony play gets pretty elaborate and very costly, but I know some guys who have an almost quasi-religious dedication to pony play and are willing to fork over the cash. There is nothing more fun than pupping out with another pup, which means barking, roughhousing, wrestling, licking, and rolling around on the bed with another guy that shares the pup headspace.

The range of power dynamics in the world of kink can be explained by placing them on a spectrum. The restrained male patient needs an anal exam from the rugged doctor, who is conspicuously naked beneath his white coat and stethoscope. When sergeant tells you to drop down and lick his boots, you better drop down and lick his boots, private.

The full parameters of the play should be discussed before starting. Some guys might think the idea of being kidnapped and tied up is hot, but after three hours in a closet with duct tape over your mouth, you might feel differently. In the pre-play negotiation talks, you should set clear limits and boundaries. This role play is one that can be taken to extreme lengths — some guys love getting abducted from a public place and thrown in the back of a car — so you should only play with someone you know and trust not a stranger or someone you met online.

Son comes home from college one day and catches his dad in the shower and decides to join. The fantasies are unlimited!

He will do whatever it takes. You might need to carry him. Aretwork courtesy of Fred Lammers. See more of his work here. Baby role play commonly overlaps with diaper fetish and sometimes scat feces fetish. An adult baby will crawl around, cry, and eventually need someone to change his diaper. Business tycoon and office boy. This one works great if you and your boyfriend like to film yourselves having sex. Strip for the camera as he directs you. The risk of sexually transmitted disease is thankfully enough to put anyone off, even most men.

In fact your boyfriend may have privately attributed the role of dirty slapper to you in the past without you even knowing about it! The cheek of him! Alas, it is probably true, so you may as well get involved — why should he have all the fun! For men, that might be having sex with certain women; his boss, for example, a waitress, a policewoman… even, dare I say it, your own mother or sister! It is simply imagination-overdrive. Think about playing the role of dominant women in positions of power, or playing with ideas of vulnerability and submission with schoolgirl outfits.

Find out what turns your man on and have some fun with it. Lets face it; the female body is sexy and powerful, especially when it is strategically being stripped of all its modesty. Once you know how to strut your stuff, he will just love seeing you in a completely different way.

Why not experiment and learn how to have sex on a chair? Remove each item of clothing slowly and deliberately, looking him directly in the eye, and watch the excitement build and build until he can resist no more. Again, one of the sexiest ways to tease him is with your tongue … never going all the way until his orgasm, but just turning him on with long, sexy licks, that are super-pleasurable, but always keeping him on the edge of eruption. Every guy loves the idea of a woman raking his back with her long nails — full of passion, desire, and wanton lust!

It might sound a bit weird but imagine the lusty freedom of pawing at each other, growling with desire, and leaping about on the bed! Not to mention playing out all those animal kingdom themes of hunt, chase and devour. This one is a bit different from having sex with a call girl, which is more of a planned sexual scenario, and a fairly predictable one, because it is the job of the call girl to satisfy her customers sexual desire.

A fantasy involving a sexual rendezvous with a stranger on the other hand focuses on the appeal of a spontaneous and unexpected one-night stand. The idea is sexy because of the anticipation that occurs from meeting someone mysterious in a public place, experiencing hot chemistry, and not knowing what is going to happen next! So how do you replicate this fantasy with your partner, and create the same sense of anticipation and mystery? Easy — pretend you are someone else! Describe the kind of game you want to play to your lover, making sure to tell him whether or not he is to treat you like a complete stranger.

Then turn up as your alter ego — wear a wig, hat or sunglasses if you need to find a way to increase your sense of mystery — and then use your imagination. Have a few ideas already in place in case you get stuck and lose your character, then just go with the flow. The trick is to really play out your role and be the woman whose role you have adopted.

The more you believe in your character the hotter an experience your role-playing games will be for both of you!

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There is just something so sexy about being reprimanded by a sexy person in an official capacity — whether it is a teacher, your boss at work, or a hot copper! Some men, well actually many men, get off on the idea of being manhandled by an attractive female police officer. It links into dominant and submissive role-play scenarios, which I will cover next!

To get into the sexy female police officer role-play scenario, you will need some special role-playing attire and props.

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Props can be a great addition to your sexual play. The kit you will need for the sexy female police officer sex scenario is very simple though — a police officer hat, a close-fitted shirt that unbuttons to show off your cleavage, some dark colored hot pants and a belt with the most important sex props of all hanging off it — your hand cuffs and baton! The role of a sexy female police officer's to uphold the law, and give discipline where needed! All men are young boys at heart, and I am pretty sure that there is no man who would say to no to having sex with his favourite female superhero.

The best thing about this is that you and I get to dress up in very cool, sexy outfits to play out his secret fantasy! People seem to be more willing to express an interest in exploring the realms of dominant and submissive behaviour in their sex lives since the popularity of Fifty Shades of Grey in mainstream culture. Many of you may still be afraid to step foot into this unchartered sexual territory, though.

On the other hand, women might be shy to tell their boyfriends they need a more dominant role from him in the bedroom in order to get turned on, or vice versa.

Most men will be willing to explore anything that gets you hot. Believe it or not, men are mostly turned on when they are able to turn their women on! If you want to develop a better understanding of how dominant and submissive behaviour works, and what people might get out of this kind of role play, a fun introduction would be to watch The Secretary. I know from experience that this is one sex scenario that men enjoy. A good way of discovering what kind of role-play scenario your guy might be into is finding out what categories he is interested on the porn sites he visits.

What he decides to do with you during the interview will be up to him, and all you have to do is play along. You can play the shy girl, if he likes a challenge, or a feisty one if he wants you to do more of the visual work and for hi to be less hands on. The emphasis is all on power play. And that's where worshipping can also come handy.

Role-play can only be what you make it, which means you can influence how sexy your own experiences of role play will be simply by taking it seriously yourself, and submitting yourself to the idea of having some sexy fun with your loved one. You may discover brand new original ways of enjoying yourself in the bedroom! I am inspired by the ways people interact.