Romance Your Wife

Who actually enjoys working? What do you think the modern corporation is? People preen about in fancy clothes, they perform the minutiae of filing TPS reports, and everyone pretends to be happy and like one another. Women really do love working in this setting. My advice would be to only marry if the woman has it within herself to hold to the vows.

You give up a great deal legally when getting married and all you get in return is the moral force the vows hold on her. Here are some of my previous posts on the topic:. Hostage negotiator for life? That way rationalization lies Should you game your prospective wife into submission? Are young marriages doomed to divorce? One key thing to remember is the bulk of the threatpoint comes when you have children.

Marriage poses a part of the challenge, but fatherhood is the trap feminists and social conservatives have set for honest men. This is where much of the risk is. Cancel the surprise party and massage, return the diamond necklace, use the refund to buy something manly for yourself that you have wanted for a while, and completely blow off the rest of any birthday celebration.

Whatever behavior you reward is the behavior you will get, and lots of it. Break it off with her and leave the country. Tom, you make some good points, but walking away is the last step. Remember, the guy is all Blue Pill; every word of this is revolutionary for him. At risk of being too much of a publicity whore, but in the interest of helping for further reading I post predominantly from a Christian perspective:.

My post on keeping the proper frame in your life. It sounds like you pick non-marriageable women. Why do you date careerists? Have you ever noticed what kind of men feminists date? You are ripe for the picking, it seems to me. You answered your own question. I agree with the folks saying bail. Too many red flags. Say it matter-of-fact with maybe a hint of frustration. If she blows up, walk away. Two years ago I sent my sometime-girlfriend a present which I had some reason to believe she might enjoy and would provide her with hours of amusement — she never even opened it!

Last Xmas I sent her a neckless of Azis-Azuli I think it a beautiful rock , and all you can do is wear it around your neck. As Xmas is in only a few weeks, I am absolutely lost as to what I should send this year. Does Dalrock or any of his readers have any good ideas for me?

Become the man you want to be. Improve yourself in order to live the life you want to live. Make yourself better for yourself, and rediscover how to enjoy your life with or without anyone else. Then just let her know that is who you are and how you are going to live. If you choose a happy person, you are more likely to be happy.

The prettier she is the more likely she is to be a psychopath. Great intro post Dalrock. I really appreciate that you spend the time explaining things to the new guys, because a lot of blogs on the manosphere assume a ridiculous amount of terminology and there can be an oddly hostile environment towards questions. Your reaction to a lot of what you read here or in the links will generate a lot of questions in your mind, but I advise you to be careful about where and how you ask them.

Trying to make comments at this stage will elicit hostility, because you will be seen as part of the problem. Time to start reading and thinking. Posts on this particular or that particular blog seem to resonate especially well with you. In this stage, your mind is in the process of dismantling some parts of your foundational beliefs and building new beliefs, while simultaneously guarding your most important beliefs. The pain relief of confirmation: Having identified the problem and the solution, you find new energy and hope — perhaps there is a way to improve your relationship or have a better one in future.

I believe that most comments on the manosphere are written by people in this stage. Many of these people have at some point experienced tremendous loss or pain, and the hope they found in their new understanding of the world is the only relief they can find. Especially comments from anyone in stage 1 or 2. Making comments on these blogs is therapeutic for them, and helps take their mind off other issues. The level of rationality or willingness to tolerate other opinions will depend on the degree to which the person relies on their new-found perspective for comfort. Crisis over, lessons learned.

Given time, life continues. You come to accept where you are, and you either move on to other things or you stick around for a while to try to help others you see having the same problems. Not everyone reaches this stage. Some people never find enough confirmation for their views in stage 3 and they just go back to some compromise with their previous views stage 1. Some people start again and try to identify a new problem and new solution on which to focus their energy stage 2 then 3.

They can understand where people are at, having been there themselves, but no longer feel the need to react defensively to slight disagreements. They have more room for nuance and appreciation of human weakness and frailty to balance overt idealism. If you are reading this post, then consider yourself fortunate to have found Dalrock whom I believe is an excellent example of someone in this final stage that works to help others.

I never read a romance novel until I saw posts about women reacting to 50 shades of grey. So out of curiousty I went to the library and picked out a random novel. I tell you reading it after knowing what I know was a very good learning experience. And I never saw anything in the book about giving flowers or jewelry to the chick as a romantic gesture. The guy leading the charge is where the romance came from.

How about this one: She messed up the routine to the point where I am not going to adhere to it anymore. Let her come up with a solution, then screw it up just for shits and giggles. I wasted many years thinking I wanted my husband to buy me flowers and gifts. This is how seriously messed up our brains are. So I told him how I loved surprises. They are stunned and back down. If no one ever tells her to stop, to calm down or to be appreciative of what she has and that there are direct consequences for showing disrespect; nothing is ever going to be enough.

The female is a destructive force when given the freedom to do what she pleases, she will lay waste to entire Civilisations because her appetite can never be satiated once it has been let loose. The same could be said of men, quite frankly, if we were given complete power to do whatever we please, with no boundaries, we too would destroy. Then again, there seems to be no end to the calls to curb male freedom…. The fact that a woman is a woman does not give her a pass and does not make her any less evil for responding to kindness with spite and malice.

Do the masseurs take turns, spelling each other when they get tired? How many orgasms come with that? I lead a very sheltered life because I simply cannot imagine a woman acting like the one in the post. On second thought, let it, you selfish bitch. But Suz has a good point, too, especially if this couple has kids. No way are the kids or Dad gonna be better off if the marriage is terminated.

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The example I like to use is the iconic scene from Say Anything , when John Cusack stands in the rain holding the boombox over his head, while the girl sobs inside, and eventually they get back together. Any woman of my generation will sigh and get weak in the knees when you mention that scene. A guy sees that and focuses logically on the chain of events: So even chick flicks from the 80s understood this better than most guys do today. If a girl is totally in love with you, then by all means make gestures of devotion.

My dad was a very nice beta, and my mom loved him dearly. But she was raised in different era, one where ladies were taught to respect men for being breadwinners and fathers. Or nudged into it slowly. I tell you what. This is all so much simpler with faith. Of course, 7man makes it pretty easy on me too. A good leader is worth his weight in gold, and a woman would be a fool not to set herself at his feet. It is much easier to fix a small fault in the seam of a garment than it is to fix a huge tear in the cloth itself. As for the taming fantasy, when a man tames a woman, it bonds her to him and establishes his ownership.

He then protects his property because he has an investment in it and it is valuable. These things would not be present in a relationship with the fantasy ready-made woman. A spanking tames her emotions in a straightforward way, but many men are too timid for this and many women resist it. This is, for me, one of those posts that is the most threatening to feminism. If all guys did was take the red pill and complain, then the status quo would go on.

However, establishing the basics of actually applying the red pill information is an act of revolution. The greatest danger has never been that men would realize the truth. It is that they would apply it. A hard neg softened by a compliment, with a hint that you know her better than she thinks. Those things can become habits. You will exhaust yourself trying to deprogram her, and she will still revert to quirky behavior when situations are not to her liking.

When she returned home a few months ago I tole her I missed her, that life was empty and pointless because I had no one to argue and fight with every day. She laughed and requested I make rude pillow-talk, which I cheerfully obliged. Christianity as it is currently being practiced is problematic with respect to the marital hierarchy. Yes, the Bible is the perfect guide and every word is true and right. The problem is that the teaching you are getting from the pulpit is probably very much saturated in feminism.

Churchianity means following the church instead of the Bible — avoid this! It is femDOM through and through. Mutual submission is being preached as a model for marriage 2. You will live under the paws of her Holy Rationalization Hamster and she will despise you for it. FemDOM Christian women are the worst kind, worse than garden-variety feminists.

Someone should write a book about how to deal with them. This is a little but only non-holistically off-topic. Among married voters Romney won the vote handily, In other words, the cohort looks a lot like the Julia character the Obama campaign. Where these things happen, the health, education, and welfare functions of the family will have to be undertaken by someone, or some institution, and that will sooner or later be the government.

These institutions will, in the end, stand or fall together. OK, so far so good. Good luck with that. Vase is proposing the legal monstrosity of Marriage 2. Acting masculine does that to men. The solution is simple. However, I can tell from body language and tone of voice on tangential matters that it will be a conflict. She had a very good family environment. If she simply acts how her parents acted which is what most people end up doing she will make a good wife. It is necessary for me.

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I have extremely high IQ. You can only communicate well with people within 1 SD of you, and ok with people within 2 SD. Beyond that its pretty much impossible. This eliminates a large chunk of the female population. I have no issue with this its just not my first date opener. I would assume its a combination of my high IQ, income, and location appealing to careerist women combined with my large health problems and small frame also making me seem attainable he has all the things I wanted in other men I failed to get, but because he has these flaws I can probably actually get him.

Of course who knows. The last girl I dated was intensely feminine and all we did was fuck. She also had a man and three kids she kept secret for months. SP is an idiot, but whatever. I have no intention of that. Because we could go on having shallow fun for awhile but it will still be out there. Women feel special when a high-value man lets them into his life. As an aside, learning dominance is great, but at the same time, for a typical guy, the easiest and most accessible way for him to raise his value is to get into better shape — by lifting with weights and improving his diet.

The dymanics of the alpha, the White Knight, the timid men, the exapserated men, the sheep type women and the women of fire can easily be seen. This is so much work… I have to do this? Just to keep a women from carving my heart out and taking half? If you are referring to the no fault divorce presumed wife custody machine, then I understand your concern and have written much about the problem.

But it is what it is. You I take it have chosen not to marry. With that in mind, if you are referring to learning that sometimes a wife will respond better to a playful hug, a bit of teasing, or a smack on the ass better than she will respond to flowers or an expensive gift, I disagree. Likewise to being the leader. Being the leader comes with responsibility, but husbands already have all of the responsibility anyway.

What is stressful is trying to be responsible without being able to lead. Another resource that may be helpful is the Five Love Languages by Chapman. That is exactly what I was thinking earlier,that so much effort goes into controlling and defining men and very little goes the same for women,as they seem to have inherent worth and status and a man has to begin with the supposition of badness and unworthiness,it seems the females not only have a lot more freedom,they get a lot handed to them by default.

Not appropriate for the current topic but still interesting. Even when their wives have careers. And pay to have them delivered to her door by an athletic fellow in a Wm. Fioravanti suit and Raybans. I gave a woman a stargazer for her birthday one year. I was the one who was seeing stars after that one hahaha. I literally mean be more of a man. Be masculine, be goal-oriented, be decisive and show leadership. Take risks, reap rewards, have adventures. I am going to man up. See if you can have a cold beer waiting for me when I get back.

Progressives are famous for stealing perfectly good words and phrases and giving them screwy meanings. Or nudged into it slowly…. Well, maybe the right phrase is that they fall for the disinformation. Some of that disinformation comes from themselves too. Men and women are — astonishingly enough — different, and they want differnt things. Next thing you know, the guy is acting too feminine and his wife is frustrated.

I hate to break it to you…marriage is work. Nor have you said a word about her self control in the face of that heat. The peculiarities of your last relationship should bear out the overwhelming importance of both. That is the criteria. Get the fuck outta here with that.

I strongly advise men NOT to buy women 12 or 18 roses. Worse, many women are not satisfied with them. And if she complains and wants to keep the arraignment and wants a new one without returning the old one, dump her! The way a woman reacts to getting flowers is a big red flag.

In fact, it got to the point I always turn them down. Who acts like that when given a gift?? No expensive flowers until until your 10th anniversary if you must waste money. Until then, Be A Skittles Man. All that is really being described here is how to maintain sexual attraction.

The problem is that men have been misled about what women are really sexually attracted to, so this post is helping to clear up some of the confusion. But it sounds like perhaps you think it is unfair that a man must work on maintaining sexual attraction, so I thought I would just mention that women have a lot of things that they have to do, too, to maintain attraction. Not all orders go from men to women. Many are funeral arraignments and many are to people in the hospital.

Seems like a lot more fun than flowers, a teddy bear, and no sex for supplicants day. Welcome to the kinder, gentler, packaged-for-mass-market-consumption blog. Women know very well what is visually stimulating to a man. The obesity is rebellion. Fat girls are still well sexed girls.

As repulsive as that may be. Without the WWW, I might never have found it. But at this point, a man who is clueless about Game is starting to be exposed as an incurious, intellectually lazy duffer. I think you may be wildly overestimating the free time for frivolous web surfing of the average man. I would advise men to nip wifely slovenliness in the bud quickly. Otherwise you will end up looking at a Holly-Petraeus-wannabe for the rest of your days.

Obesity is not sexy, and every woman knows it. As for single girls — reject the obese ones as potential mates. Gluttony is a sin. What other sins is she hiding that she is refusing to control? Let me add on a little advice. Excuse the crass language, intended to help shock some of you into action. A big part of attraction is not so much doing things to make your wives attracted to you, but instead simply NOT doing things that irritate, repel, disgust and otherwise piss off your wives. For example, some of you need to stop volunteering to do more housework. You are a man.

You are not a maid or butler. Stop being a bitch. Some of you need to take better care of your bodies. She is not going to suck your cock when your balls smell like ammonia. Start giving a shit about how you smell. Shit, shower and shave, gentlemen. You might need to adjust your diet. Some of you are hyperreacting to her every emotion. You hang on every word she says, you lean in all the better to hear you, my dear and you come running whenever she utters your name. Stop trying to be a white knight. Stop trying to be her girlfriend, parent, or therapist. Stop asking her stupid questions about the state of her feelings at any given moment.

You can only stand back and let her feel them. You give her copious hugs, backrubs and foot massages, hoping for a crumb of sex, a returned kiss, a fun grope or even a word of her approval. Stop doing all of this. Stop being a manipulative bitch. Some of you are talking way too much about all your feelings and emotions, especially your negative ones. Stop talking so much to your wives about all this shit. Once in a while, OK. But unloading on her every other day is going to scare the living hell out of her and snap her legs shut. If you need to talk to somebody, call one of your male friends or get professional help.

Some of you are asking, pleading, begging and negotiating for sex. Stop being her bitch. You will no longer ask, beg, plead or negotiate for what is rightfully yours. If there is any place where your wife needs you to be in the power position, it is in the bedroom. A good place to move toward that dominant position is to stop defaulting to occupying the submissive position.

However, a word of caution needs to be placed here as a modicum of balance and a countermeasure against always having to be the sole load-bearing pillar for the entire family structure. However, it can slide into dangerous territory when a man has to continuously do this to remain a free agent in his own household. A better advice would be to see how much control a woman has over her own personal emotional proclivities, because that will be a measure of just how much a man has to change himself.

A home should be where a man can retire from the stress of day-to-day struggles and be free to be…for lack of a better term…a fallible human being. Working in aerospace engineering, I know a thing or too about leadership and the stressful burden that is precluded in such a profession. However, no man can fight a two-front battle. Dalrock, this is some great advice, I just wanted to add that there is a certain point at which a man should not pass. That point is different for each man, but I must say that if any of these things begins to conflict with his morals, and ethical paradigms in a way where such an evolution of thought would lead him to assume characteristics of a neolithic brute just so he can have some semblance of control and a modicum of appreciation from a seditious spouse.

In such a case, balance would be the most important imperative to avoid destroying all the hard work a man puts into building himself up professionally and socially. In the end, everyone is responsible for their own happiness and if small tokens of appreciation or any tokens of commitment go without at least some kind of reciprocal appreciation and gratitude, then it is time to question the heart of the recipient. If the vows of marriage mean anything to the wife, then it would preclude that she would be just as vested and would encourage, hint at, or even directly communicate that which would ease tensions at home.

Dalrock, I appreciate the graceful diplomacy you show here in genuinely trying to help married men. A slight communications error. I want to get married and coast. I have to work at work. I just want to keep her. A woman with a higher n count need more gaming due to the higher number of hawt men she has sexed. A virgin or a low n count woman needs less. Now that you have stopped doing the things that irritate, disgust, repel or otherwise piss off your wives, you now need to start taking some action.

This requires some honest evaluation. Most of you have gotten fat and out of shape. You need to start lifting weights. This will help with losing fat, gaining muscle, and reshaping your body. You probably also need to adjust your diet, and get more and better sleep.

Some of you might have medical issues going on. Some of you might have mental health issues going on. If you need to talk to someone, do it. If you need professional help, get it. If you need a vacation or some time off, take it. If you need treatment, get the treatment. If you are depressed, get help. Some of you have just stopped doing the thing or things that made you attractive in the first place. You used to be good at something. Maybe you need to rediscover it, and polish that skill up again. Maybe you should get back into playing guitar or playing pickup basketball games. Get out your mothballed rifles and shotguns, and get good at shooting again.

Maybe you should get back some of that edge you had when you were just starting out and before you settled into comfortable wedded bliss. You can take up fishing, and get away by yourself or a few other men. You need to do this to 1 have something just for you; and 2 be in the company of men. Most of you do not stand up for yourselves to your wives. Will she withhold sex?

Maybe, for a while. If she does, just call her out on it: All women, including wives, are sometimes bitches. When your wife acts like a bitch, call her out on it. I recommend an indirect approach at first: You need to stop it. You must let her know that bitchy behavior will not be rewarded.

With sex, you need to initiate more often. As you progress, you should tell her what to do, how to do it, and what you want. You should be the dominant partner. Which is only fair, because being a good wife will require effort on her part too.

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Michael- incorporate these things into your very being, and implement them well with your woman, and it will seem like coasting because this stuff comes naturally. You are already wired for it. Immerse in it, and its super-easy. Help a girl get things straight, and she will actually help you perpetuate the frame you set. Refuse to to your job as leader and there will be no coasting. The former attempts to give a road map while the latter is useless and self-serving, not to mention a fantasy.

Seeking information of extremely high importance to your life marriage and romance, in this case , is frivolous? From the perspective of most men I know, you are assuming the conclusion that surfing the web in a way in which you will discover randomly important stuff you are unaware even exists is not frivolous.

There is too much to do in life. Most of the working men I know — the sort who actually keep civilization going — have very little time for frivolities; and yes, from their perspective spending time discovering stuff on the web — as opposed to very occasionally finding the solutions to specific problems or what have you — is frivolity. Missing out on the profundities of Roissy is a first world problem among first world problems. Hell, I probably stumbled into Roissy before most people who post here.

I thought he was rather pathetic then, and I still do. There are reasons for that, whether folks want to hear them or not. And I want to sit around on the couch eating high-calorie snack foods, wearing sweatpants and an overgrown muff. Ah yes, I had failed to notice the full implications of that thought. For awhile there I had thought it was a free-for-all. I do get a bit overzealous at times.

Perhaps there ought to be a new phrase created for this specific application. Taking care of yourself is the best insurance against infidelity. I have to concur with Zip. Imagine how much less likely that man is to go in search of crucial advice on relationship when he cannot wrap his mind around the idea that women bring divorce.

I saw it as a relationship where men and women, being different in complimentary ways, could stand back to back and make their way together in the wicked world.

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In many ways, this served me well when I was dating, because I actually had reasonable standards for the behavior of my girlfriends. Even after becoming tuned into the manosphere, my illusion of a complimentary, basically equitable, relationship was very difficult to shake.

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I think this is partially rooted in biology, but it is seriously skewed by the indoctrination of female supremacists. It certainly is true that our corner of the blogosphere represents a very small portion of those on the worldwide web. However, the issue is much more than just exposure. Our culture is steeped in feminism, and the reality we are discussing the mechanics of attraction goes against the dominant belief of our age feminism. This resistance to offending the dominant philosophy of our age is the far bigger challenge when we are talking communicating with men and women say 30 and over.

For younger men at least, the reality is something large numbers will grow up knowing. Feminism spawned the sexual revolution, and created an age where the vast majority of young women delay marriage for a decade or more after coming of age. This generational shift is the real threat to feminism. And that is valuable, in the trenches work. If one man saves his marriage because he stumbles on this post, it is worth it. I call bullshit on that. The kind of men who are likely to stumble upon — and take seriously — the manosphere on the Web are semi-retired independent folks like me, the unemployed, and men who have already been burned and know they have been burned so they are looking everywhere for answers.

Until, as empathologism points out, they do, because they have joined the ranks of the damned. Finding out about the manosphere before getting married instead finding it when a marriage is going down in flames worth its weight in gold. Some men find applying red pill easy? I find it damn difficult. It does not come naturally. If its so hard, would i throw it away? As unpleasant as this awakening has been, i dont want to go back. Are very niche things and I agree with you that the majority of men will never see or hear of a nobody like roissy.

I worked with enough hapless accountants who know the only reason their wife is with him is that she was all fucked out and wanted a provider for herself and some kids, and they are repulsed by it. Of course this avoids everyone else that are simply foregoing marriage and divorce theft to begin with, which is quantifiable, growing, and very much mainstream. The dwindling cohort of pack mule men is more than welcome to continue signing up to livelong slavery for women and a state that wants nothing except to eat, sleep, work, and pay taxes.

They dismiss it because they want to hold on to a fantasy. Also there is a reason that they are nerds. The naturals simply just are in terms of having high testorone and acting in a dominant manner. The nerds buy into the mainstream brain washing and some will wake up when they realize the massive lie that they are being shown. Some will man up and learn to behave in the way that is in accordance with nature expect has been beat out of them by the Feminist Big Sister. YBM has already stated that he is a natural and was a bully growing up.

Zippy, I owe you. If you misspelled my username, good on you because I liked your version better than mine and I took it…. He was living on a friends couch. Agreed, but this is definitely generation specific. To men over the age of about , game is largely seen as an absolute abomination, men as uncontrollable libertines, and women as snowflaky pure essences of an all enlightening divinity.

Now, talk to your average teenage boy, and odds are he is far more realistic than I or many others who read this blog. He knows women are intrinsically immoral because his mother taught him by example, and he considers women to be something between drifting garbage and free-floating machinery to satiate his fleeting carnal needs.

Young men often see women as less than human. The generational chasm is evident in females as well. I disagree with the methods, not the result. The Roissysphere is unacceptably brutal in its treatment of good traits like patience, temperance, and humility. It throws the baby out with the bathwater in its quest to pump up a false-enlightenment of Ira, Invidia, and Avarita. Sorry about the typo, my bad. Your mistake is my gain.

She is actually intelligent. Has been getting paid to go to school since undergrad and is about the finish a science PhD. You would see the intelligence just talking to her. The problem is that her current academia environment is encouraging her to become a stereotypical liberal with a high opinion of her intelligence. Still, I think the main problem goes back to probably being a lot smarter then the authority figures in her young life and they were all traditional, so she has a negative experience with traditionalism.

Of course I grew up in the opposite environment so I see the warts of modernism. Her hotness for me is clear. She could make me hot if she was more feminine. She is holding herself back. Right now I think she has a lot of substance of character but has this feminist ideology crap in the way. I repeat, this is what I keep hearing, in deafening chorus, from married men I talk to. The penetration of the terminology and the practical utility has been extremely fast in the last year.

You see it pop up all the time now. Most people in this thread used my question to go off on their pet peeves. However, Cail Corishev gave me some good advice. I was already thinking something along these lines, but its always good to hear it put succinctly. No ASDF, most people here can see your headed down divorce rape highway to hell. If your not willing to walk away right now, completely no contact, then your volunteering for beta hood.

We know this cant be helped, especially since you already know better. Some people cant shrug off their beta slave chains. I have said this at HUS and I say it again here. Yes, this was me for a while — I saw game skills as the same as being a douchebag because those guys had game skills. I could apply the lessons in a way that made me a better, more attractive me, rather than having to become an alcoholic frat guy another strawman of the haters debunked.

However, this all just highlights that most guys will never rise above their meager lot of lame game — when they spend all their time trying to reject and debunk game, they are just digging themselves further into the hole. Further, a science PhD puts her at least around The Wall is fast approaching, as well. He knew he occupied a position above his disciples and those around Him. He had authority and power, and He knew it. He knew how and when and where to use His power and assert His authority. He did not care what people thought of Him.

He simply spoke the truth and did what He knew to be right, and the consequences were what they were. He corrected, rebuked and disciplined the people around Him. When people around him were wrong or their conduct was inappropriate, He called them out on it directly and unreservedly.

He skillfully and effortlessly demolished the arguments others put to Him and showed them to be full of shit. He was an oak tree in the midst of political corruption, spiritual legalism, whiny pussyboys, and unrepentant sluts.

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He pulled the very best out of His disciples. He directly confronted falsehoods and destructive conduct. If someone misbehaved in His house, He kicked them out. He had and has clear expectations for those who want to be part of His family.

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His patience for those who accept Him and follow His directions and the path He lays out for them is infinite, His manner with them is accepting and gentle and loving. He removes from His presence those who refuse Him, deny Him, or rebel against Him. Jesus with the woman at the well: I know it, you know it, and everyone you know also knows it. Now go, and sin no more. You need to change your life, and you need to start by not sleeping around anymore.

Mary and Martha are sisters. They are entertaining Jesus and His disciples for dinner. Martha is running around doing all the prep. Tell her to help me! Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her. Mary has it right. The article gives valid advice. A lot of times my wife is a grown up. I need to be the one who is solid and who she can count on to be the leader, to not lose my head under stress.

Your wife and family will reflect your behavior. They have been steeped in feminism so thoroughly for so long that:. If you try hard game on them, results are unpredictable. She may respond or she may be angry at you? Seriously, I wish it were as easy as just gaming your wife. No need to rush headlong into defeatism.

This post is intended to help men doing it the wrong way try instead doing it the right way. Why do you and so many others fear the idea of husbands learning how to interact with their wives? Over and over again. This is exactly the kind of defeatist BS I had in mind with the warning at the top. Piss and moan on another post, but not this one.

That night, when she came home probably steaming mad, he should have told her that even a bad present could go to good use. Then, the next day, show up at her job with the flowers that she liked, making sure to wink or smile at the prettiest women in the room. Once he reschedule her desk, he could just give her a kiss on the cheek, say something goin, then go home. If you go on a business trip for an extended period of time, send your mate cards timed to arrive the beginning, middle, and end of your trip.

Take a polaroid of yourself holding your breath. Ask her to share her lunch break with you. Pack a basket or order Chinese take-out and go to a park for a picnic. Give her 10 red roses and 2 white ones in the middle with a note that reads "You will never stand alone. Praise her in front of people. If you have children, tell them "You have a great mom. She is so beautiful, or talented, or such a great cook, etc…".

Wake up early on a Saturday morning "just to cuddle. Give her a pocket dictionary — Write "You" as the meaning next to the word "Life", mark the page and give it to them "Without you, life would have no meaning. Send your mom-in-law flowers. Write reasons why you love your wife on post-it notes and place them all over the house. Create a jar filled with "Love Coupons. If your partner is stressed out, let her take a nap and keep all distractions and emergencies away during that time.

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