Love the Hate Away

I'll be thinking of you. All the best, FlourishAnyway. Im 20 married and i have a 2 year old with my husband. I have dreams about leaving him and i cry at night. Im always saying sorry for things that i know i shouldnt be sorry about or he always trys to put the blame on me in a fight and trys to play victim like he hasnt done anything wrong my heart hurts and i just need help advice and support.

Bob - Why would you want to date someone who isn't kind? Find another girlfriend or just go it alone for awhile and concentrate on you. It's better to be alone and happy than in a relationship and miserable. Maybe she's miserable, too. Emma - How could I leave that off? This isn't a ranked list, but know if it were, it'd be right up there. Thanks for the comment and have a great week! I might've missed it but I feel like "bad romance" by lady gaga should've come in at 1. GennyXO - Thanks for these suggestions which I have added. Be kind to yourself and have a great day.

Sometimes I include cover songs instead of the original. I appreciate your comment. Ilo - Thank you for the suggestion.

• Lust & Wrath [Anything Goes 3] (Siren Publishing Classic ManLove);
• What to Do When You Hate the One You Love!
• Il contro in testa: Gente di marmo e danarchia (Contromano) (Italian Edition).

I have added the song to both this playlist and the following, which also contains help information for people who are in abusive relationships: I appreciate your suggestion. Have a good day. Ultraviolence by Lana del Rey is an amazing that depicts well the feeling of someone who is in an abusive relationship and can't end this cycle. Some people say that this song romanticize those toxics relationships but I think that is another and very sad view about this issue.

Kari - You're awesome! I added this one too! Have a great weekend and healthy relationships! Sorry, FlourishAnyway, I read your this message late: Cheng Liu - Great addition. Both singers are really have a history of messed up relationships. The song has been added at Jaylin - Thank you for that suggestion. Have a great day. If you have toxic people in your life, ditch them. Life's too short for games. Hi, Toni - I went ahead and added it because it's on topic and with Weird Al, everyone should know it's not serious.

Thanks for stopping by. Have a great week. Rj - Thank you for the suggestions which I have added. I've also added "Love Stinks" to the following playlist: Jar of hearts by christine perry -love stinks -the g giels band- strawberry wine by pat benatar-.

Mona - Makes you wonder what kind of place Hell, Michigan is, huh? And why it's called that. This is a fantastic list. I feel old, though I had to play most of the videos to know the songs, haha.

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My favorite is Ellie Goulding. Oh, and this is the first time that I learned there is a place called Hell, hahaha. Anonymous - Yep, already have some that fit that description. Or, you might try: What a great article. I love youe style - witty and entertaining. I especially wa amused by your other half's description of what a toxic relationship is.

I'm in a loving and practical! He cooks too - how good is that? Martie - Thank you for reading. I'm glad you enjoyed it and think you're right about appreciating what you can. Flourish, I love the information you give about each and every song. I can just imagine how much energy and brain power you put into these very handy playlists of yours. Linda - Good for you that you choose healthy relationships. More people should follow your lead. I appreciate your stopping by and wish you a wonderful rest of your week. I love the opening photo in this article.

I'm lucky that I've never been in a toxic relationship. It was certainly interesting to read about this unfortunate situation, though. But I remember one of them when I was still a teenager. And once was definitely enough.

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Genna - Bad boys that can't hold a job, don't show up timely and treat you right have no appeal here! I sure don't see it. I've added your two songs. Have a wonderful week ahead. I remember when those handsome, bad boys could be attractive when we were very young, but thankfully we grew out of that. Yet another impressive list of songs. Gypsy Rose - Sign of the times, indeed! Thank you for stopping by! Glad you enjoyed it.

Have a great week! Another very well done hub. WOW I didn't realize there was so much music on toxic relationships. Must be a sign of the times. MsDora - I know, right!?!

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Real love shouldn't hurt at all. Thank you for your kind compliment. Have a lovely week. Heidi - Glad you enjoyed this! I've added your song suggestion. George Michael sure was the bomb. I like how you interject the tables and polls in this and other articles to make the readers stop and think. Jo - It's a good thing you don't do toxic relationships.

They do seem to be quite the topic in music though and the lyrics make me glad I don't partake. Thanks for reading anyhow! Great lists again, but, like others here, I have a hard time relating. Never heard of it. Linda - Yes, my reliable and conscientious husband doesn't do "toxic" either. We've been married over 25 years, and hope to one day be where you are. Congratulations on such a long and successful marriage! Kryiaki - Having no experience with toxic relationships is a good thing! Some of the popular music seems to indication toxic relationships are almost the norm these days, but balanced and healthy relationships are much more fun in the long run.

Have a wonderful week! Flourish - It was difficult for me to get into this one because a "toxic relationship" could not be any further from where I am.

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Thankfully, I have been blessed by being with a man who loves me warts and all and has for 4 decades. But, needless to say, you've got a good list here. Being a textbook millennial, I can honestly say that know just a song or two from this list. Luckily, I am also clueless when it comes to toxic relationships.

Even so, I enjoyed reading your list and listening to new tunes. Thanks for sharing, FlourishAnyway. Larry - Glad you enjoyed. Have a great weekend.



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Looking forward to reading more Larry writing. Bill - There are some really good songs on this list. Sometimes hearing about the bad relationships can make you appreciate a good relationship even more! Have a wonderful weekend! Anyone who has been through a nasty divorce would really appreciate it.

I'll send it my sister's way! Thank you for reading and for your clever comment. Gosh, I couldn't think of a single one. I feel pretty good about that. LOL Seriously, not one toxic relationship song would come to mind. Even going over your list, I only recognized two of them. Maybe I'm listening to positive songs and I didn't even know it.

Quite a collection I must say. The dynamic of these relationships has always escaped me. I find them paradoxical. As a man devoted to loving women my whole life,I've had my share of 'frustrating' partners as well. So here's a poem by Jeff Ross I hope will make light of these diametric relationships;It's titled. Rest assured the eternal flame of romantic love will never be extinguished;On the contrary,it may engulf All our hearts in the end.

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There are lots more songs where these came from. This is just a sample. Because he is so attracted to her, he doesn't mind playing an intense game of harming and being hurt by her: Confession Time Have you ever been in a toxic love relationship? Hey, no one's perfect. I'm so turned around I don't know what's toxic and what's not anymore. Take our compassionate love quiz. In our laboratory study, couples talked about a source of conflict in their relationship. In other words, relationships can survive conflict and bad feelings if partners never stop feeling seen by the other.

Is it just that people are better able to find a solution to their problem if they understand each other? Understanding does aid in conflict resolution, but it turns out that understanding can even help those fights that will never be resolved. Whatever their source, understanding can help for those fights, too. In fact, understanding may be most important when you face issues that cannot be easily resolved, such as different religious or political views.

We found that when you feel understood, it signals to you that your partner cares about you and is invested in the relationship. It also makes you feel like your relationship is strong and worth fighting for. And in the end, feeling understood, especially when your partner has a different opinion than you, just feels good, plain and simple.

So how do you increase understanding during conflict? If you support the Greater Good by December 31, your donation will be matched dollar-for-dollar. We need your help to keep the "science of a meaningful life" coming. Click here to watch the video about our newest idea, and to donate. Scroll To Top Have you ever hated your partner? Letting Go of Anger through Compassion To foster resilience, think about a hurtful event in a different way. By Jeremy Adam Smith July 5, But even the difference between them is cause for pause: When you scan the brain of someone looking at a person they hate, only a small part of the cerebral cortex associated with reasoning and judgment is deactivated; when they're looking at someone they love, large parts of the cerebral cortex are deactivated.

In plain English, this means your ability to exercise logic and reason is switched pretty far off when you're in love with someone, but if you hate them, you can exercise better judgment. According to Professor Zeki, "This may seem surprising since hate can also be an all-consuming passion like love. But whereas in romantic love, the lover is often less critical and judgmental regarding the loved person, it is more likely that in the context of hate, the hater may want to exercise judgment in calculating moves to harm, injure or otherwise exact revenge.

Not only does hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, but once she hates you, she's thinking a whole lot more clearly. The lesson here is not, of course, to feel free to hate people you used to love. It is simply to be kind and gentle with yourself if you do notice those kinds of feelings arising. There are lots of ways to stuff down distressing feelings: