Welcoming Him Home
It doesn't take much to make your man happy. Unconditional Love and sincere appreciation are what most men expect in a partner. So let your imagination run riot! Skip to main content. You are here Home. Start with a love letter. Remember how eagerly you waited in the early days of your courtship to receive a letter or just a note from each other?
Do it again, but this time count all the reasons, which you think make him the best husband. Your man will not only be happy to be reminded of your love but glad to know that he makes you happy as well. When your husband expresses an opinion or a thought, pay attention. This shows you respect him and his views and nothing pleases a man more. Say thank you with a smile.
When your husband does an odd job around the house, thank him like you really mean it. He will know that his help is not taken for granted and he will be happy to do more. Prepare his favorite meal. After he returns home from work on an ordinary day, surprise your husband with his favorite dinner. He will not only be glad to have the food he likes best, but will appreciate the time and effort you put in preparing it. Let him have the TV remote.
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Granted, that you wish your husband spent more time with you, than watching the sports channel, but if there is an important game that you know your husband would love to watch, hand over the TV remote graciously. When you are speaking to your husband or listening to him, make sure that you keep eye contact.
This will assure him of your attention and your respect, which is empowering to any man. Make arrangements for a romantic vacation, to a destination you know your husband would love to visit.
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Ask his family over. So ask them over for a Sunday lunch he will be touched by your loving gesture. Gift your husband a subscription to his favorite magazine. On the way from work, visit the bakery and pick up a dessert your husband digs. Do something he hates.
Choose a chore, like buying grocery or taking out the laundry, your husband really dislikes doing and then go on to do it cheerfully. Have his pals over. If a Super Bowl game or something equally popular is coming up, let your husband know he can watch it at home with his mates. Living apart for three weeks has provided a change of pace for both of us.
Once again, as happens every year when he takes his solo vacation, I have learned not to take him for granted — even if he annoys me from time to time! Finally, a voice of reason for the middle aged! Thank you for writing what goes through my mind whenever I read most of the online suggestions. And thank you for the reminder that the love is always the answer. Some of the online suggestions are downright silly!
I agree — getting a car wash was as far as I went. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. Enjoying Retirement Time for you. I try to remember to do these daily too! Wow, it is sad if this post offended people. All your advice is basic parts of a happy marriage. Like with every person if your husband treats you well and with respect he certainly deserves to be treated the same. And then when they are told, they get all snippy. This is where so many divorces come from.
I love my husband dearly and try my hardest to make him happy. While he was gone for 6 months last year, I made sure to let him know how much he was appreciated and loved as often as I could because it gets so disheartening over there and all he wanted to do was come home. I made him want to make those 6 months fly by so he could come home to me. What a great story! Please tell him that I thank him for his service!
I agree, reminders are nice. Even being the one that wrote it, I still need to re-read it at times to remember.
I am always trying to see a new perspective or get more ideas. I tend to forget to tend to myself when I am with the kids all day.
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I just realized how I look right now is not the greatest, even though he will come straight into the kitchen and give me a kiss when he gets home regardless it is still nice to try and freshen up before he gets here. Aww, thank you so much! So glad you enjoyed it, and thank you so much for leaving a comment! I love the simple things!
They can mean SO much! Thank you so much for coming by, and dropping a sweet note! It assumes that you have a great husband that obviously does nice things for you so you have to do them back. Respect, love, and cherish each other. Be equal to one another. I come from a military background where a lot of woman acted like this. You know what happened to them?
They became overworked, underapreciated, and made a lot of excuses for their husbands. Treat each other with love and care because you love and care for each other. Not because someone on the Internet said it will help your husband come home. I think marriage equality is so important! Thank you coming by and leaving a comment! I believe in assuming positive intent.
Those haters obviously have very poor lives and therefore we need to acknowledge them and move on. You sound like a wonderful person, trying to do the right things and taking the time to really sit down and think about someone else. This world would be a much nicer place!
Not letting people rent space in your head for free is liberating!!! That means a lot! Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this subject. Awww, thank you so much Krystal! I was hoping it would provide help out there to someone, even myself! Your blog is completely on target. This philopshy is what works. Thank you so much for taking the time to write this, AND read it! I have to agree, sometimes just making those small adjustments can change the day to day, so much!
And thank you for the encouragement to keep writing! I may just do another one today! First time I have ever commented online, so bear with me haha. I appreciated what u wrote! I do not smile and a grunt a hello!!!! You actually made me realize what I was doing. Who would want to come home to that I ask you? Starting today ill make the effort all because I read your story and yes sometimes people do need a little reminding, so thank you! I failed at the quickness on this one. Thank you for sharing what works for you!
Some days are easy and some are hard and it shows in the way I speak and respond to my husband and honestly I really feel bad from inside. But thing is we both are simple and down to earth people, we feel guilty to indulge in overselves. Hope it passes and there will be days when we can both enjoy some quality time together just holding hands and walking in the sunsets with not a thing to worry about!! Thank you SO much for sharing your story Kat. And please know that I SO get it, and understand it. I can completely relate.
Are you able to have a date night once in a while? Even with a sitter that may not be family, but is someone that you know and trust? Date nights have been so good for us!
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But totally understand they can be hard to achieve or make happen! You are lucky if you have a husband who responds to you with kindness and affectionI and makes you feel loved. I wish I had one. Yes, for over 25 years I bent over backwards for him. So count your lucky stars if you have a husband who shows you love and affection. Thank you for leaving a note! Best wishes for you! I found this to be very encouraging as a stay at home mom. I do apologize for the ones who didnt understand the message you were trying to convey and misconstrued it into something else.
I will now become an avid follower!!! Thanks for this, I totally came across this blog by accident. I have an amazing husband: I LOVE hearing this. So happy that you accidentally came by.
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Those are always my favorite. I feel the love you have for each other! If you make the love for him run over you stand underneath it and in return you get the overflow from him! Your marriage, your rules, all kudos to you both. Awww… I love this! Thank you so much for your encouragement and comments. Haters gonna hate no matter what, sucks to be them. Love it, Love it!
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Thank you for posting this awesome blog! Thank YOU so much for dropping a sweet comment! Have so much fun when he gets home!! I see nothing wrong with this post?? We forget so easily that the little things matter a lot, and this is a nice reminder of that. But now with the craziness of day to day life, a text will suffice! Awww… secret love notes are such a fun idea!! It may have come at the perfect time!
I totally agree with you.! I always put my husband first. I meet him at the door and kiss him after work. I make sure to have dinner done and serve it to him in his favorite chair. There is nothing wrong with your blog. No offense to anyone here. I just think it is rude and cruel to hurt someone that is just trying to help those that may need the insight. I think it is great what you are trying to do. It sounds like we have alot in common when it comes to our hubbies.
Aw, thank you Jess! That means a lot. It DOES sound like we have a lot in common!! Although some days are harder than others, to try and remember to do some of these, I sure try. And what a difference it makes in my day too! Thank you so much for stopping by and dropping a note! Thanks for this post! I am engaged, but am really excited to start implementing these things! And in my experience, if you do the nice things first, your partner is sure to follow! Not that I am perfect, but I am happier when my man is happy to see me! Anyway, you really encouraged this bride to be!
Awww, congratulations on your engagement! Thank you so much for the sweet and encouraging email! I so appreciate you coming over and reading, along with dropping a note! Happy engagement, wedding day, and marriage! Jesica You are a good writer. We own a cottage http: So enjoyed your article on how to make your husband happy to come home and would like permission to make one copy to put in the notebook. Also would like to invite you two to spend time at this very special place on us in exchange for a bit of coverage on your site and the use of the this and other articles.
Yes of course, feel free to include this article in your notebook, making sure it shows credit somewhere on the copy of https: I checked out The Little Stone Cottage, and it looks amazingly sweet! Good Evening, I hope you and your family are well! I enjoyed your article and thank you for sharing some great advice! Thank you so much for commenting! Thank you for stopping by, and for leaving a note!
My husband is working overseas for a few years and we do the work to make that as good an experience for both of us as possible…I feel so much gratitude to him for the life he gives me as a result of that hard work of his…and I was searching the net to find new ways to show my gratitude…while he is away…I am about to order some flowers to send to his office there….
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I admire your commitment and gratitude in your marriage. I agree with all of this. My husband works in a very demanding profession and I like to create an oasis for him when he comes home. The last hour before he arrives is devoted to preparing for my husband to walk through the door. I spritz perfume on my pulse points and pick out an outfit that he loves to see me in. The outfit could be a dress, lingerie or form fitting work out gear.
I do not let my husband see me in pajamas when he comes home unless I am ill. I take the time to curl my hair as well. I make sure that I go to the door with a smile and give my husband a passionate kiss. Our marriage improved greatly when I became a housewife. I am no longer stressed out and I have become a much better cook. I love your blog! I could take some of your tips for sure. Thank you for coming by too! I would like u to help me pray for my husband who left me with 2 kids, its been a while now and i really love him children also miss him.
We used to be happy , like really happy going out. He calls everyday morning and aftrnoon, he says he loves me. When he shuld come visit us his car is alwys broken. Pls help me pray find him bck. Aw, thank you so much!! I appreciate you coming by to read, and to even drop a note to say that. Your email address will not be published.
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