MAN FIND SECRETS: How to Find, Get & KEEP a GOOD MAN!

These guys act one way then turn around and do another thing they are not genuine. While well-intentioned, perhaps, I think this entire thing is bogus. Oh my goodness… All the doubts, all the fears… This is pain indeed. These are really reasons for being alone: Some people are content to be single. Not every person is defined by who they are with.

This is the kind of thinking that sent girls to school for their MRS degree. Well…What about someone like me who keeps attracting men who are ugly?! Not just on the outside, but the inside as well?! The ones who treat me like crap, who seem to think I am no good for anything besides screwing around with?! These same men constantly tell me what all is wrong with me, while exhibiting all kinds of trainwreck behavior!

They remind me of my severely abusive father! What about all that, huh?! Someone tell me why all these bad eggs come my way! Right, is because they waste too much of their time on all the men who are Mr. I have the solution lol…This article is great for girls who have issues and no experience. But I agree with some of the ladies…there is an epidemic of inmature, high maintenance men that do everything to win you over then they sit on their butts, stop doing and being the man you like but expect you to be there and not leave, I love the stupid confused look on their faces when you cut them off and give every reason, they still down own it…why?

The real truth here is that people never change, ever. They are the same over and over. All that is different now is that women do not -need- a man anymore; now they just want one. Probably gonna take another couple hundred years. This is so brilliant. I just turned 19 yesterday. One of my bible study leaders asked us to write a list of qualities of the man we pray God would destine for us. I loved your article, and yes most of it can be related to the law of attraction, In this case more like a Mirror Law, You attract what you are, and It has happened to me over my many years of dating.

Actually the reason I have not met the right man is because all men want an anorexic 20 year old woman that is vacuous. We have a stunted generation of Peter Pan men and no matter how much you work on you some women, like me will die alone. The men are too boy like and immature now. Which it seems to be a dichotomy: If each sex just keeps saying that about the opposite sex though, we stay in the status quo — without getting ourselves closer to the great woman or man that we desire to be with so much.

Further, I have lived by this rule that you write about — be the woman the type of man you are looking for would want to be with! I have and a lot of men want to be with me, but honestly there are not a lot of good quality men, — truly good men. Men have always been biologically programmed to seek young and beautiful women to bear offspring with. This is not a generational thing and will never change.

Accept that you squandered your youth riding cock instead of using it to secure a high value man. Men have always been like this. There is one thing I must correct you on. With so many women sleeping around all the time with different men, then how in the world would they be able to commit to just only one man?

Renee, I loved this post! Jan 13, April Hamilton rated it it was ok. Now" The book is described as providing dating tips that still let you be you , and don't require any gamesmanship to meet and keep a quality man; neither claim turns out to be true.

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In a nutshell, the book's how-to can be boiled down to this: Get an amazing, irresistible life. Be an amazing, irresistible person. Chat and flirt with everything that moves, employing these specific strategies, types of come-ons, text messages and actions which may totally seem like gamesmanship and manipulation, but trust the author, it's not. Follow those four simple steps and success is assured.

An actual excerpt from the bookI'm not kidding. If you're drinking anything, put the cup down now or your keyboard will be drenched in a few seconds: Women like this cause an alarm to go off inside a guy's head and heart. Keep her, he thinks.

I could just as easily advise guys seeking dating advice: Men like this cause an alarm to go off inside a woman's head and heart. He's just a character in a romance novel, she thinks. Nov 03, Nichole Dinato rated it it was ok. Most of the advice in this book was geared towards making you feel like you have to be a Manic Pixie Dream Girl in order to land a guy.

There's a lot of unsettling talk about constantly sexually validating your man in order to keep him or else he'll cheat! I have a particular problem with Hussey's repeated insinuations that if you are good enough , you can tame that bad boy who doesn't want to commit. I did take a couple good things from here. The idea of being a High Value Woman, while played out to ridiculous lengths by Hussey, is a good concept at it's core. I do think it's helpful to realize that being too available, and not letting someone work for you a bit, might be creating a bad dynamic in your relationships.

I liked the chunk at the very end about values and standards - I wished the whole book had more material like this because that section was awesome. I added those kernels to my "self-help" arsenal. I'd say read it if you're trying to improve and learn about yourself and you have the time. Don't read it if you take everything to heart and can't filter out the bullshit, or if you can only fit in a book here and there. For a truly helpful book, read Attached: Apr 22, Amelia Hay rated it it was amazing.

What if I told you there was a simple, concise, no-nonsense manual on how to find, attract and keep your ideal man? Sounds too good to be true? The message of this book is distinctly outlined in proceeding paragraphs. The author takes the time to explain how he came from being a teenager who somehow ended up with whoever would have him and watched others get the girl they wanted; to a successful relationship coach.

His knowledge comes from a mixture of personal experience and the years spent coaching men in their love lives. Hussey admits that he himself is far from perfect and does make mistakes usually as a direct result from not following his own advice; as well as invaluable advice this book also contains links to videos that take the concepts to a deeper level. The Get the Guy philosophy divides dating into three stages: According to the author we have two options; wait or create.

You remember the tall, dark and handsome commuter that you locked eyes with on the central line last week; you waited and nothing happened. He got off at the next stop and you have not seen him on the tube since. The alternative option is to create, not too many people feel comfortable approaching a total stranger to create an engaging conversation; if you feel this way you are not alone! The key is simple, learn how to create conversations everywhere you go; Find the Guys leading principle is to talk to everyone who serves you, people around you waiting in line and to take the conversation further and to create daily rituals that involve communicating with more guys.

In theory, we are exercising our social muscles and when we do come across someone of interest we are prepared to strike up a conversation. Get the Guy challenges women to raise their standards and to understand that they are a woman of high value and by cultivating certain traits is the initial step to attracting the love that we all deserve.

This book divulges the psychology behind the male mind in a way that is positive and beneficial to both genders; with this understanding of the male mind along with a splash of playfulness and a touch of spontaneity accompanied with the right mind-set become the key ingredients to attracting love. Get the Guy aims to put women back in the seat of their lives in a way that leaves a man thinking and feeling like he has done something to earn her affections.

According to Matthew Hussey, the key to creating a great date lies in the importance or depth of value that we place on date. The date was a disaster, you spent the entire evening focusing on feeling nervous and saying everything right instead of discovering if there was any chemistry or finding a way to establish a connection. The author elegantly reminds his readers that the purpose of a date is for both parties to leave wanting more of each other instead of feeling like you have both endured an exam. Get the Guy is both informative as well as empowering; the author intelligently divulges information about the human psyche in order that both sexes understand each other and are building a relationship that fulfills both of their needs.

The author reveals what the single life is like for the majority of guys as well as explaining why the concept of commitment can scare a guy and highlights that you can not change a guy but you can change his perception of relationships and commitment.

The book takes its readers through the process of establishing whether a potential partner is Mr Right and also reveals how to move on from heart break. Through out the pages of the final chapters of Get the Guy, Matthew Hussey, encourages the readers to remain high value and to maintain their standards but his message is best summed up the final words on the last page.

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Get the Guy is not just a 5 step plan to land the guy of your dreams. This resource is a logical but nonetheless empowering treasure trove of information which appeals to women from all walks of life and encourages them to live a life that is worthy of their value, maintain high standards and accept nothing less than a love life that they deserve. Get the Guy will be released in US on April 9, and will be available in major bookstores and is also available to pre-order on amazon. View all 3 comments.

Jul 08, Liza rated it really liked it Shelves: It's a basic book telling you what you already know, but somehow have forgotten along the way. While the videos were cute I could directly open them on my Kindle what made them annoying was that Hussey kept saying, "Like this video.

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You know this, I know this, but sometimes you need to hear it from someone It's a basic book telling you what you already know, but somehow have forgotten along the way. You know this, I know this, but sometimes you need to hear it from someone else as some of the dating advice we hear today is stupid. So it's good to have that reality check and this book does fulfill that role, but again the video links to more promotional products is what takes away from the value of the book.

Sure go to a face to face event for fun, but don't feel obligated to buy the extra stuff. This book should do. Is it the best dating book of all time? I don't know, but the advice resonated with me. The pitch to buy extra stuff turned me off. Jun 18, Lin rated it it was ok Shelves: Well, I sometimes learn more form people I disagree with than from people who always have the same views.

This book was okay, I liked the general self-development parts but when it comes to dating advice it's not my cup of tea. However, I enjoyed seeing things from his perspective, especially when it drifted into being a little autobiographical. However, after watching Matthew Hussey on Ready for Love , his insight resonated deeply with me and my curiosity was piqued by Get the Guy: I probably would have hesitated to pick up the book if it weren't for my best friend's high recommendations, and I'm sure glad she nudged me to read 18 May Admittedly, I am a cynic when it comes to matters of the heart and self-help books on relationships don't even make a blip on my radar of books to read.

I probably would have hesitated to pick up the book if it weren't for my best friend's high recommendations, and I'm sure glad she nudged me to read it. Matthew Hussey is the kind of guy every girl needs in her corner. His positive energy and beliefs makes you feel like he's your own personal cheerleader. This isn't a book about how to manipulate a guy to get what you want. Rather, he's cheering you on to be the best person you can be to live a fulfilling life. All the arseholes will be weeded out because you are too valuable to waste your time on them.

Once you recognize and believe in your value, you will find the right guy worthy of joining you on your life's adventures. Coming fresh off a break-up, I oddly found the Keep the Guy section more pertinent to my life at present. I have zero desire to get any guy since I'm deep in the heartbreak, but Keep the Guy helped me learn my value. The How to Move on From Heartbreak had some empowering encouragements as well. Some of my favorite quotes: Fall in love with the man in front if you, not his potential. The pain doesn't come from losing your soul mate, but from the disappointment that this guy wasn't your soul mate.

He failed to live up to your values and standards, so how could he be your soul mate? He genuinely seems like he wants the very best in life for you. He just seems like a kind, honest-to-goodness nice guy. Whoever lands this guy will be one lucky lady. I hope that he writes a book for men on how to get the ladies because I'm intrigued with what his viewpoints will be.

May 20, Lynn Davis rated it it was amazing. When I started reading this book, I immediately was challenged by the thoughts being introduced. However the advice to be a woman of high value and not to settle was compelling. No woman in her right mind wants to settle for less and that is easier said than done. Matthew goes over and beyond. Not only does he tell you want you need from his heart, he then explains the concept with his analogy about the train or other examples and quotes.

Although you have to get out there and try What I find When I started reading this book, I immediately was challenged by the thoughts being introduced. What I find heart-warming is you can feel him prodding you along, hoping the best for you and even there to say what might have gone wrong. I love that he firmly places the ball in your court. Keep her, he thinks. I could just as easily advise guys seeking dating advice: Men like this cause an alarm to go off inside a woman's head and heart. He's just a character in a romance novel, she thinks. This is especially true if meant to unveil the "male mind" and give it to us straight - the "ugly truth" type of stuff.

They make women feel bad for being women. You come away from just one little paragraph feeling like men essentially don't like women beyond the physical. We're told we need to be more feminine, but also think like men, less clingy, but not too independent - etc. Instead, it reads like common sense, the kind many of us missed the memo on, so that it's not so "common" after all. Since a relationship is a dynamic, it's only fair to adjust what you can control - yourself. So it's not about changing who you are so much as really communicating it more clearly.

Building mutually satisfying relationships is the goal, not manipulating your dream man into marrying you blech - what an idea! I appreciate that this book is about subtle nuances too. How can we communicate that quickly, when we may have a few hours, minutes, seconds even to inspire a guy to pursue us? This book gives basic tips on how to do that. I emphasize this book is very basic.

Do not expect an epiphany. A lot of it may feel like reminders of things you know, deep down, but often forget or even compromise consciously. I'm embarrassed to say that I was dumb enough to be conned by a slick snake oil salesman. That's all he is. A cute , energetic , great salesman. Save your money , you already know all of his so called "secrets" and "tips".

There's no wonder to me that he himself cannot retain a partner. I bought this and 2 others from his company.

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What a waste of my hard earned money!! And do not , under ANY circumstances order directly from his "empire's" site! His company illegally keeps your payment method on file and you WILL start getting random fraudulent charges for his other crap, "coaching" bs and all of his other nonsense , while entertaining , is as useless as this book.

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