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Tell Them Youre Fabulous

Later, they became hollow careerists who paid too high a price for their ambition. Then, sometime in the late s, society awakened to the fact that actually a lot of unmarried women were having a pretty great time and were in no rush to marry now or maybe ever.

In generations past, the year-old who walked away from a stable-but-uninspired relationship was putting not just her happiness but also her very survival at risk. But now that women no longer have to depend on men for financial support, we are enjoying a historically unprecedented luxury: What was once a state defined in the negative—unmarried—now has become a life choice that gives women power: The power to leave a mediocre relationship, to freeze your eggs, to ignore the societal pressure—still very present—to just get married already.

Do I want to live in a city high-rise or a suburban bungalow? But all of these stereotypes are misleading. It is simply a life—a life with responsibilities and rewards, good days and bad ones, successes and failures. I was single for most of my adult life—I met my husband at 39—and I experienced the usual rewards and frustrations of living on my own.

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There were glorious times—late-night dinners with the girls, solo hikes through the high plains of Wyoming—and there was also a lot of heartbreak, loneliness, and self-doubt. But what I failed to appreciate was how even the difficult times—maybe especially the difficult times—made me the woman I am today. You build strength when you gracefully make small talk with your ex and his pregnant wife while seated next to them at a wedding.

When you figure out how to fix the leaky faucet in the upstairs bathroom. When you refuse to let the car salesman intimidate you. Mostly, you gain strength when you learn to listen to your own voice and live life on your own terms. And like my busy friends, singles just get out of the house more. Because what is perhaps most impressive about single women today is their ability to build rich, meaningful lives without any sort of blueprint. It takes courage to stay true to yourself when so many voices are telling you to follow a more conventional path.

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It takes mental agility to hold two ideas in your head at once: Yes, I would like to meet someone someday; yes, I am fine right now as I am. Maybe I sound a bit highfalutin. Because actually I got pretty upset when my boyfriend broke up with me, and quite honestly my heart sinks every time I get a baby-shower invitation.


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Or, to be strictly accurate, insensibility. Read on, fill your heard and mind with the sweet music of truth, learn from their mistakes, and you may find to be an unforgettable thrill ride for a variety of different reasons. You live from self-induced crisis to self-induced crisis. Someone does your hair, someone chooses what you wear, someone does your brain, someone tells you what to eat and three times a week someone sticks a hose up your bum and flushes it all out of you! Time is like a stretched elastic band.

Major motion pictures are made, huge concerts have been put on stadiums. It cannot be that difficult. Will you be my stylist? Just the one, dear? Have you eaten something? No, not since I had a ball on my 40th birthday. I felt really strong, really sorted-out about it.

I realised what a lucky, wonderful person I was. When will you be 50?


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The woman who got stuck on an eating loop in Yo! I mean, honestly, sweetheart! Quick shower, quick shower… Wash and go. Sandpaper, exfoliant, cellulite breakdown, tone and perm, auto-bronzer and birch twigs! Shall I have soap? This is the mood board for the next edition: Oh but Alex, Alex, with lovely shoes.

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I shall endeavor to transcribe it on my pad, photocopy it and file it for future reference. No, darling, she slept with the publisher!

A business without advertising is like winking at a girl in the dark. That Dutch cap has only ever seen the light of day. Here I am, your mother, poised for your first sexual experience and night after night, dry bloody sheets! I could take these down to the charity shop. You cannot give these sort of clothes to the poor! Why, oh why, do we pay taxes, hmmm? I mean, why not just have a Stupidity Tax? Just tax the stupid people! Mum, you are just paying into the whole panic culture, I hate it.

Anyway, I just have to tell these tragic, little wannabes, do you know what I tell them? Are those your old trousers, dear? It was rather like putting toothpaste back into the tube even then.

I’m Fabulous? YOU’RE Fabulous!

Can I just say one word in my defence? Yeah, just a talking neck! Most of them have done away with features altogether! They have to marry a bit of common every now and again to ensure bone development! Had two husbands, one was too short one was gay. Sleep, shit, eat, talk, smile! What was in in your day, Dr.

Raise a child that can render you unconscious by pinching your neck? Actually, can I say darling, you may be looking quite well, but not so thin yourself. Do I detect a slight thickening, sweetheart?