Bondage in Bangkok (Bangkok Nights Book 1)
Many are honest, hard working girls trying to make a living as best they can. Lots of western men have married Thai girls they met in bars and are very happy. However, the sex industry is a corrupting influence and you should be on your guard. There are no hard-and-fast rules - every girl is different and should be judged individually. A good dose of cynicism is sensible. According to Know Phuket: These girls will pick up customers at nightclubs or off the street hence saving the customer paying a bar fine.
Freelancers are often attractive girls who are confident they can pick up men without the advantage of a work base. They may therefore charge more than bar girls.
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They are also considered less trustworthy as they are harder to track down in cases of theft from the customer. Most of these complexes are in the sois side streets off Bangla Road in Patong. There are stools around the bar and there are usually a couple of poles on the bar for the girls to dance round. The customers stroll around the complex until they choose a bar or are dragged to a bar by the girls working there.
The girls will then try to sell themselves to the customer by talking to him or entertaining him with bar games. Typical games are connect-four, jenga, dice games and hammering nails into a block of wood race. The girls usually wear bikinis - they are no longer allowed to dance topless although it may still happen if the bar thinks the authorities are not taking notice.
The girls have numbers and customers can request a girl they like by number. Only the big bars and go-gos will have a mamasan. She will be an older woman who demands respect from the younger girls. She will be responsible for recruiting new girls, making sure the girls work well and liaising with customers. These will usually cost baht above the normal bar price. The bar pays the extra to the girl as reward for selling the drink.
Effectively, you are not only buying the girl a drink but also giving her a tip. The beer bars charge between to baht. This money is for the bar - seen as an introduction fee and recompense for the bar losing a worker for the night. The bar may pay a percentage of the bar fine to the girl but the customer still needs to pay the girl for her company.
The go-gos charge higher bar fines. Some go-gos will ask for baht or more but this usually also includes the payment to the girl so the customer does not need to pay her directly. The beer bar complexes and go-go bars often have short time rooms at the back of the premises.
The customer will pay a bar fine, a charge for the room and an agreed price to the girl for her services to 1,baht. When they are finished, the girl will return to work while the customer moves on to his next port of call. The payment to the girl is normally 1, to 2,baht. Some of the more up-market hotels do not allow overnight guests while others will charge a guest fee.
The girl will act as a companion and guide. They will go to restaurants together, take day trips together and generally act like boyfriend and girlfriend. Of course, the girl is still working and the man pays for everything and pays the girl for her time. The bar where the girl works will probably expect to receive a bar fine for every day the girl stays with the man.
This may be followed by the divorce experience and the going home with no money experience. It is quite fascinating to spend an evening down Bangla Road and notice just how many guys have picked up a holiday girlfriend. We are not talking about picking up a girl for a quick squeeze for the night, we are talking about a working girl who will be their companion for the length of their holiday. The GFE is a strange concept but it is actually a significant section of the tourist sex trade.
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There are many men who come to Thailand knowing exactly what they are looking for, but they do not want the hassle of looking for it every night. It is much easier to make the effort once and then settle on the same girl. Know Phuket website Know Phuket , May 3, ]. Basically, a man comes to Thailand for his holiday and on one of his first nights, he goes around the girly bars, picks up a girl and then keeps her for the rest of his holiday. She becomes in effect, his temporary girlfriend.
She will not only be his sleeping partner. She will also be his companion. They will stay together, eat meals together, go on daytrips together and generally act like any other couple on holiday. It is an odd idea but when you think about it, you can see the appeal for a single guy on holiday. He not only gets a sex partner, he also gets a companion and tour guide. He has someone to share his holiday.
He has the chance to get to know his sex partner, to even form some kind of emotional bond. He avoids many of the hassles of being a single guy in Thailand such as not being able to enter a certain type of bar without being jumped on by all the working girls. They do not know the ropes so they let the girls lead, and many of the girls like the GFE.
They get a regular customer, a comfortable hotel bed and plenty of good meals. They also get plenty of time to work on the guy. He is a potential long-term money source, perhaps even a potential husband. She will tell him her life story. It will be a heartrending tale of poverty and misfortune.
By the end of his holiday, the girl will have him wrapped around her little finger.
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However, it is not only the newbies who do the GFE. Many of the regular visitors also swear by the GFE. They like the convenience. It is a lot of hassle to deal with a different girl every night. They have to negotiate a price and then get her safely out of the door when they have finished. It is much more convenient to settle on a girl they like and keep her for the length of their holiday. You are not only paying a barfine and a payment to the girl. You are also paying for the girl's food and they tend to be very good at ordering food, often way beyond what they can actually eat.
Then you start paying for them to come along on daytrips or to go and see a show. It will not be long before she feels comfortable enough with the man to want a few presents. The GFE can quickly become an expensive experience. The bar where the girl works will almost certainly want a barfine for every night that the girl stays with the man.
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By the end of the holiday, this will add up to several thousand baht. The bar may even expect the girl to bring the customer in for a few beers every evening. It is amazing how often guys are surprised when they find out their temporary girlfriend actually expects to be paid. They point out that they have already spent a small fortune putting her up in good hotels, buying her expensive food and taking her on trips. The thing is the girls do enjoy their little slice of the high-life but they are not that bothered about it. What they are actually working for is money. They think they are giving the girl something special by showing her good hotels, food and taking her on tourist trips.
The girls really do not think it is that special. If they have been working for long, they have probably done it all before anyway. They come from poor backgrounds and they are accustomed to sleeping on mats and eating noodles. They are happy eating noodles. What they want is money. It is usually the biggest scam of all, the 'falling in love' scam.
Even trying not to be cynical, it is hard not to be cynical about girls who stay with a man for two-weeks because he is paying them and then say they are in love. And of course, she will remain in love as long as there is some form of payment on the horizon. These payments can come in many forms. She will need paying so she does not have to work in a bar. Sometimes the girl says she needs to be 'bought out of the bar'.
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That is a good one. She cannot just leave the bar, no, she has to pay to leave. Then she has to have more money because she is no longer making money from the bar. The old-timers try to talk sense into them but there is usually no reaching them. The charms of a pair of big brown eyes and a cute body are always more convincing than some guy in a bar saying he has seen it all before.
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Perhaps the most amazing thing of all, many guys actually find a great girl from the GFE. Despite the absurdity of it all, through all the scams and horror stories, despite the cynical old-timers, sometimes love does actually shine through. There are many, many guys settled down in Phuket, happily married to their temporary girlfriend. Outside he clubs are pictures of the hosts and the women chose the ones they want to entertain them.
Many of clients are women who work as bar girls who are fed up being nice to old men and want young men to be nice to them for a change. Many of others are wives of wealthy men, who have mistresses and ignore their wives. The hosts have to be at least centimeters tall and under the age of The hosts only earn about a third of their fee. They are expected to make their money in tips. Top hosts sometimes receive expensive gifts such as houses and BMWs from their patrons.
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