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So please do yourself a huge favor and leave that relationship right where it stand. I guarantee you will see the real him. Your with a married man!? They will never leave there wives for you just know that. Girl you just need to take this L and start over! Since there are plenty fish in the sea that are not married! Find one and let hers be!

He is accusing you of doing something that his is doing. The real question is What outcome Are you expecting? Why u with a married man? U dont like it so imagine how his wife will feel! Hes a cunt and your a bitch! His wife is better off without him and i hope he does the same to you! Hey…i m in a delima whether my bf is cheating on me or not …well thngs are nt working properly between me n my bf from past few months. Bt frm past few mnths his behaviour cheamged totally..

To forget everythibg,I went to see a musical show where I met my current boyfriend,he is a rapper,and loves me like carzy. So girl,he may not be the one for you,you deserved to be treated better. This is not a sign he is cheating, this is obvious message he wants nothing to do with you. Threatening not to eat for any reason is emotional blackmail. You sound really sick. I think you should seek help and stay away from that guy. Hi my name is Livia and I was wonder my man showed me a while back him trying to cheat and apologies for it and said he will either delete his account on fb and make a new one or delete hot porn fb crap and I was wondering is he cheating on me he has all the signs just no physical time and if my mad did I do know he stopped but I want know from all you women is it true?

My boyfriend stephen is an auto body technician weve been together for a year now ive met his kids ive met his ex ive met all his family and i basically lived at his place all year. Hes very selfish and never compromises with me when i want something and lately hes been wanting time to himself. He lives with a female roomate that ive been around almost everyday. I went to her baby shower. He comes over to my house every other day and stays the night on my twin bed but im thinking what hes doing those days hes not here. Am i crazy and sabotaging my relationship.

So how do u really know?!? Ask God for Wisdom , then be prepared for the wisdom that you might get because it might hurt. I am dating a 11th grader named Benjamin Ford i love him with all my heart i was asking him earlier if he was cheating on me he said no. Ben has alot of female friends. I really care about him alot. I invented Ben to my house. You probably need to concentrate on your education. Your grammar and spelling is horrifying. Instead of worrying about anyone cheating, you should probably look into bettering yourself. Your child may end up repeating a dumb bum cycle.

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What if he is showing about 5 of these signs and you have asked him many times and he says no? I know for a fact he is a really good liar and when i ask he goes into a speal about id never do that to you, why would i cheat? And then he leaves his phone around me which makes me think, he wouldnt do that if he were! I just cant shake feeling that he is and the signs point to both ways.. Im not sure if im just going crazy or to listen to my gut? Stop treating him like a cheater or he WILL become one.

I guess love it blind And strange.. He met all your family. Is that a red flag for not meeting his son or friends. There are many ways to find out if he has cheated on you, but the easiest that I could find was by asking his friends: So easy to tell. Most men cannot even look you in the face after they have cheated. If they can, those are the ones that you need to run from, fast! I have noticed things like this in the past with others, but never saw any OTHER evidence of cheating. I was afraid I would find some of the signs that I recognized recently, on this post.

Time to have a talk with my husband! It might sound weird, but I can usually tell the minute that I lay eyes on the guy. There is just something about his attitude that changes when he cheats. Oh man, I was hoping that this was not the case. My boyfriend has been so distant lately and I have been wondering about him cheating. I hope it is not true, but I am going to ask. There is very little that you can do when a guy is cheating. However, if you decide to keep him around, there is little that I could do for you.

I would question what the reason for following sexy woman on social media would be all about. If you have a man that you have to watch this closely, you might be in trouble. You know, I searched the internet for signs that he might be cheating on me and this is where I ended up. After reading through this I am afraid that he really is cheating on me: I guess if there are some changes in his attitude that might mean something. I would just ask him about it before jumping to whether he is cheating on me or not. I wonder what a man would think if he read these. Would he take notes and realize what to avoid for being caught?

I hate being cheated on. It has happened so many times that I have sworn off relationships for 1 year. All of these signs are well worth looking out for, however, they might not ALL lead to the conclusion that you are being cheated on. A lot of these are valid reasons to suspect cheating. In fact, I think they are all quite obvious.

If I noticed ANY of these in a guy that I knew, I would be all over accusing him of cheating and tell his spouse how I felt so she could do the investigation she needs to do. I avoid all of these things as a man by making sure that my girl knows that she is only thing on my mind, regardless of the situation we are in. Cheating is not cool and I would hate if it happened to me, so I do not do it to others.

If a person is cheating, they do not deserve anything more. There are many ways to find out if your gut is a cheater. Most of the time you can tell right away from his answer. I have never cheated on a single girlfriend that I have had. However, if I displayed these signs that I was cheating, I would expect that a person is smart enough to catch onto it! Getting around the fact that your man might be cheating on you is not easy, however, there is one easy way to find out. Some times the surprise of the question can garner an honest response. Jut remember, it might be one that you are not going to be happy with.

I was wrong and it took a real mistake on his part for me to even notice. I feel like an idiot, especially after reading through these signs. My husband got a new computer last week and now has it password protected. He claims that the operating system requires that. Is that true or is he hiding something from me? Regardless of the operating system requirements, he should give you the password to show that he is not hiding anything.

Very good signs to watch out for. You should also remember to not go overboard and just flat accuse him of cheating. An investigation is most likely needed to be sure you are right before you jump into catch him in the act. If he cannot share it with me, than I feel that he might be keeping something from me, which usually ends with him being a cheater!

If a guy is asking for privacy, you are either not that serious, or there is something else going on, right? I tend to think that I might not have updated my online profile because I was spending more time with my new honey: I will get to it when I am ready. My husband has been using his phone more, but I just thought it was because it was a new phone and fun to mess with.

When I asked him if he is talking to other woman, he said no, do I believe him? However, I would say that if you are uncomfortable with it, something should be said and then you can go from there. Very beautiful people have beautiful friends, typically. That does not mean that he is dating all of these woman, right? It would be bad for me to catch my husband cheating, so are these all of the signs that I should look for? I am curious if there is anything else. Its too bad that sometimes the signs that he is cheating are NOT that easy to notice.

Even though some on this list are quite obvious, you just never know for a fact. LOL, I would say these signs are quite obvious! IF I saw any of these, I would be asking questions right away! Especially if all of a sudden he does not want to be anywhere close to you. Even though it does not always mean that he is cheating, it is a sign that something is not right. He cares about his hygiene? No, maybe that is because I have been getting on his case for the last two months about it and he is finally listening: Very good tips and I must say that most of them would point you in the same direction, he is cheating.

I would say that if you see the signs, it is time to watch what is going on, or just come right out and ask out of the blue. Sometimes you can catch them off guard and they will answer you normally. These are all very good signs that he might be cheating. I would think that as soon as you see any of these happening for a long term, you would start to ask questions. Is He A Cheater? How to Know for Sure: Nina stone July 5, , Yuri July 1, , 5: Uriel June 14, , 9: Susan June 14, , 9: Dominic Paul June 13, , 2: Holly June 10, , 2: Bryan September 4, , Write to Wyvernchuck on g-mail.

He can help you. Donna Russo May 28, , Glory April 1, , 2: Write to Wyvernchuck on gmail. He can help you with that. Eden Allan March 19, , Nolan gibson March 16, , Keegan March 14, , 4: Makeurmove March 19, , 3: Jasmine February 6, , 4: Blake December 8, , 1: Ashley Conley December 19, , 2: Christy Wenger November 4, , 9: Shari Highwood October 27, , Julie drummond October 7, , 6: Does anyone know the best way to catch a cheater?

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Livia October 18, , 8: Socialty L Forman October 17, , Savvy October 10, , 9: All October 25, , 6: Hugh Jarse September 23, , 3: Sandy September 17, , 7: One can cheat but shows none of the above mentioned signs. Anon June 10, , 6: Kayla June 21, , August 4, , 2: Noneya May 18, , 2: Dennis May 2, , 3: Barbars April 30, , 7: Anna Reed December 23, , 9: Cut up the credit card him and I shared, took my account off our credit card billing options.

Yep, glad my sister validated how I felt. I hope Tony has a nice Christmas with Theresa, his whore. Because this girl is tired of being played. You should be mad with your boyfriend as it was his choice to cheat. The wife is the one who owes no one anything. Give me a break. So here is my story. He knew everything about me before we were married, and I always thought I knew almost everything about him. Back in my dad was in and out of the hospital a lot. I was working but every time he was in the hospital I was there to comfort and be with him and my mom.

During this time I relied on my husband a lot to listen and comfort. We were sleeping in superstructure beds because of his snoring already, so we continued to sleep separately. As time went on we lost our cat, my cousin and 2 more cats which I adored them all. My husband and I became more like roommates, no sex at all, barely spoke, no affection, he would come home late or when he felt like it. When I would call.. I was going threw hell. I never thought the not having sex bothered him, he never asked or said anything, and I was devastated all around. So, In June, I discovered that he had been visiting sites for at least 4 years.

He never deleted anything. He was such a lying jerk. There was even 4 sights where he looked up women. I explode with fury. He lied about it all initially. Long story short, we have been trying to work things out. Im not in the position to leave. He swears, promises, confesses he will never go there again. He says he was selfish and always and still does feel very guilty. Says he never physically cheated on me and never would. I get and still am so pissed and betrayed by this man. I lost any self esteem I had which was never a lot and I question everything about myself physical attributes and so forth.

Although he Denys that as well. My deep inner thoughts tell me he has cheated and not to ever believe him completely. He tells me he would and has never crossed that line. I really am struggling everyday with this I feel fake sometimes because I have to hold back my thoughts because he gets pissed.

I discovered i was being played for a fool and scammed. Who knows it possibly saved my life. I know it sounds like a hallmark movie but I discovered this person had manipulated me for over 9 years. The best thing I ever did is get in touch with some tech guy called thunderbirdinc, he saved me so much trouble. You need to spy, get to know who your partner has been talking to, get confidential data out of any cellphone and you tell him you were referred to him by jaswiththasauce Contact him on thunderbirdhack AT gmail DOT com.

Owwwwwwwwwwwwww thank you very muuuuuuuuuch! I can not confront mine he will become abusive. Why would you say that? Yes it is abuse but that was a really cruel thing to say. She was honest and def not cruel. She needs to run and never look back at that man again for her sanity and safety. I have been with my partner for 3 years. My past relationships which were only two others never treated me like this. Which he says in front of his friends to me constantly.

He humiliates me all the time in front of people. I want to know what to do. I am a quiet person and always have been. But I want to tell him to F Off! And all I want out of life is to love someone and for someone to love me unconditionally forever. Idk but I feel a little better commenting.

I know its something small but I feel better. I need to figure out what to do next. Hopefully I will grow some balls and just leave and find happiness somewhere else. Maybe no more relationships for a while and focus on me. Get a job and get my own home. I have done it before…. Your very young dude! And they are the very two things I hate!

I feel my fiancee has cheated on me though he has tried to tell me he hasnt the odd behavior you discussed is how he acts, but i have accused him a whole lot. Thank you for sharing this glimpse into your relationship. It also sounds like you did a very smart thing by asking him to move out. The thought of starting over — and going through the process of separating, breaking up, dividing up all your stuff — is painful and overwhelming. Or, are you confused because you are second-guessing your gut instincts? Not only is your intuition telling you that your partner is lying, cheating, and using you… Your friend is saying the same thing.

My partner and I are currently sleeping in separate rooms. I feel he lies to me and I have caught him a number of times. Ive never really questioned him about cheating before because I never thought he would. A couple of months ago I found out that he was talking to an old female friend he told me he accidentally ran into her when she called into his work. He is a chef people eat there, it could happen. Soon after that they started messaging each other on Facebook, never added each other as friends but would send messages through messenger.

He told me not to worry they were only friends. Then my suspension grew. I said to him that if he had nothing to hide he just needed to show me the messages. Another fight erupted over lies. He denies knowing anything about them. He is so convincing when he tells me things but last week I had a bit of a brain snap and all of these incidents plus others are making me question everything.

Oh one more thing he is a recovering alcoholic so when money goes missing each week I question him about drinking. I have asked him to move out. My friends think he uses me as a meal ticket. Well my partner has moved out. Well I forced the move it was the only way to get him to leave. I packed his things and dropped at his work after finding our bin full of empty cartons of alcohol. He still denies cheating which is fine, the lying about money drinking and other things is more my reasoning. I said in my original comment that I was confused I suppose I was more scared than anything else.

Scared of being alone, scared of what he might do, and scared of course of not being able to cope financially. I was right to worry about what he would do. He is extremely manipulative and knows exactly what to say to get to me. He has now resorted to going through my daughter who is in hospital. She just had a baby he was messaging her while she was in labour to pass messages onto me.

He knew she was in labour. He only thinks of himself. I am so tired. Just want this to end.

This past July, he bagged out on our conference that we attend every year. Says he had to help his parents move to their new house! So he knew my fear of flying, but chose to leave me go all alone, be frightened on the plane, etc. Then when I confront him once again, he says his rehearsed speech he tells me all the time. I heard some excuses, but this takes the cake! I guess his IPhone told him to disappear too for the entire week I was attending the conference?

He appears once again acting like nobody should be angry with him. He hides in the bathroom all the time! But you know what? I am an authorized user on 2 of them, so I ordered statements. He whines and acts like a lil kid when I go on business trips, wanting to go with me. But when I wanna come with him to his trips? So another thing my lying cheating husband did. I just turned 40 last Wednesday. Then for my 40th birthday party, he arrived late, which made my folks annoyed! He says he got me tickets to see Billy Joel tomorrow.

Your girlfriend that you claim is stalking you? They are devils in human form. Then he shows up and wants to be all romantic? Why you being so mean? He got angry because I took myself off our cell phone plan and went to a plan of my own. So tired of him. If his affair partner wants him, she can have him. Verbal abuse daily along with complete detachment for me as a person. It started when I was 3 months pregnant with our son who is now 7 months old.

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But swares he loves us and yada yada. I gave up everything to settle down and have a family he made so many promises and goals and has broke everyone of them including all my boundaries. Hello, Reading your story i almost see mine. Me and my boyfriend being in relationship little over than 2 years.

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Since we met he was the one who push us to relationship, he was the one who asking me to get pregnant and give him a child. I was very happy to meet such a man and i thought that would be it and this is my happily ever after.. Im honest and loyal and ny mistake was to think that everybody same like me. I trusted my boyfriend i have never been cheated before that what helps him fool me around. His phone was always on password, we never connected as friends on Facebook, instagram and other social media. After year abd a half of our relationship i got pregnant and he offer to move in in his house.

I did and it was a biggest mistake i have ever made. Long story short he never loved me he just used me because im very supportive and always was there for him mentally, physically and financially. Everything end up with so much abuse and disrespect, during whole my pregnancy i feel so lonely and miserable while he went out every night, never answered his phone and came back home at morning. If i try to ask something he get abusive and super angry.

Lately i found out he cheated on me with 18 years old neighbor across the street. I have a 2 month old baby and he betrayed me on such a disrespectful careless way. He has no heart no morals no limits, he hurted me so bad, but i have 2 ways to do: Im still leaving in his house because i have no family or place to go.

I cant work right now because im taking care of my 2 month old son. Im originally from different country and all my family back there. My now ex boyfriend keep seeing those girl every night came back home very late with her lipstick all over. I really loved him and it brakes my heart how careless he hurted me, but im strong enough to close my heart to someone who disrespect me like that. And you should do the same. This relationship thought me a lesson. If your partner hide his phone, Facebook or any other social media he is definitely liar and cheater, so i dont let noone hurt me ever again.

Good luck and be strong, just remember you deserve nothing but the best and dont let someone who dont love you hold you from somebody who will. This is my story but 21 years later!! The manipulation and control only get worse with sporadic episodes of happiness. It took me a very long time to really see the truth and try to figure out what to do.

Look up narcissism and alcoholism…it will be like reading his biography! Best wishes for a Free and Happy life!!! Over 20 years of marriage I have suspicion my Husband has cheated. He had no clue that I found out he went before he even made it home. I asked him if he went he lied. Then when he realized I knew he cried and told me bits and pieces.

No touching the ladies he says but I know different as well. I know you can pay to play. I confront him about it on occasion and he gets pissed and defensive. I feel there is more to it. I just want honesty. We have children involved. I think my husband is cheating because he is constantly on his cell phone. I found a receipt for two dine in lunches. He started working late and he car is not there. He had an affair before on me and his ex wife. He accuses me of cheating constantly. He is very defensive and verbally abusive. Im so sorry to tell that, but yes hes definitely cheating.

My boyfriend did the same and later i find out he was in other relationship for the last 10 months. Be strong and decide what you really want. So this is my story, my husband of 4 years cheated and got her pregnant and me at the same time!! I lost my baby 2 days before finding out! I can tell you this, I did not want to live when I found out, I realised why people turn to drugs at that moment! To hide the pain.. Ladies please for the love of god, if you think his cheating, it usually means he is!!

Run while you can… they are not worth it! And if you go against your gut feeling, then later down the track you will get stuck with a child and he would have moved on and leave you!!! They are not worth it!! Ladies in the article above it mentioned the top 5 signs of cheating… I ticked every box.. The best advise I can leave on is let the men feel like his a men in the house even tho we know we are the men and we run the show make them feel like that are doing great..

Give them everything they want them to hear, even though they are the dumbest people on this planet…or else they will find that comfort somewhere else.. Mine started FB…he made comments not horrible. Accused me of cheating. Then blocked and locked. Next saw it agsin. Msde a plea of how it hurtd. I got more sudpicious.

I believe he is text emsil VOIP??? We are in deep trouble. Last nite i find a condom in lunch bag. I packed my stuff. He woke up in anger said. He threw stuff accused me of stalking. I gelt so distraught remained calm. Hecsaid he used me. We are married 3years now. Found out my husband had been looking for mature fun, and lying about cheating. Both my daughter and son were aware of it. My husband threatened them, told them not to tell me and said he would stop.

It went on for 2. Every time we had a row about money usually. I foolishly never rose to the bait as he can be spiteful. But this one time I asked my husband what was going on. He told me nothing… my son told me eventually that my husband was lying about cheating. Confronted he said it was more like a game to him, chatting up women. My instinct told me differently. All the details of an online affair. He told one woman who noticed the wedding ring in photo that it was an old photo.

He also Skyped the one he had the relationship with but she did live in USA. I wondered if he was just a fantasist. Asked if he had contact numbers of women, he said no. What did I find? So he confessed then, but of course he said he had never rang them!! These messages, always have love notes in them. Also, the person calls repeatedly. A few months ago, this person supposedly hacked into his phone, sending messages to a bunch of us. Another thing that makes me suspicious. I have no reason to. Part of me thought of hiring a private detective.

So I can be either validated, or proven wrong. I invite him to family functions, however, when it comes to his family. Im going through something with my husband, I think he is lying about cheating. He always has his phone glued to him while he leaves the room ,takes a shower,takes a shit no matter where he goes in the house its always with him.

My husband goes to a treatment 3 days out of the week. Then he just shakes his head and walks away n says he is getting tired and i got is head spinning. Now he wants to file for a divorce. I feel it in my gut that he is doing n I guess i have my.. Sorry im way smarter then u think!!!!!! My husband and I have always been up and down from the beginning of our relationship, he suspected me of being unfaithful but I never have. I suspected him of having an affair with a co-worker 3 years ago and when I confronted him about it he denied it and teared up.

I said ok and never asked him again but I always have this nagging feeling every time I think about it. Lately my husband has been distant. All I am to him is a cook, maid, and occasional wife. We have 2 kids together and he rarely helps me out with them. Mine is cheating — tell me thing to do, keep me slaved, occupied. So he is free to do his things. Hello, my boyfriend acted just same as your husband: Lately i found out he was cheating on me for the last 10 month.

I think my husband is cheating… found he purchased two movie tickets, then went out to a bar and stayed at a hotel weeks ago. However I know he was supposed to be meeting up with a friend to check out his finished basement and hangout out. I confronted him and he stuck with the story that he was still with his buddy and went to the movie with a group, yet the tickets were just for two instead of just one.

He works over an hour away from our home, but my gut says somethings not right. Anyone know a way to access iCloud to set up tracking on iPhone? My husband was so smooth at hiding his infidelity so I had no proof for months. But I could just feel that he was lying about cheating! I trusted my gut instincts, and I was right. I have been married for over 11 years now, and I think my husband is lying about cheating. Especially about something as personal as cheating.

I have been married for 21years and have 2 teenage children when they were toddler I found out my husband had been going to massage parlour,brothels and internet cafes to watch porn,we had been married for 7 years at the time and had massive blowouts because of it yet he claimed he never paid he only went in a room one on one with a girl ,talked about services and price then would say he forgot his wallet for a reason to leave..

He did this for 5 years and claims it was just a cheap thrill. I then found out he went to a dating agency wanting to meet women who only wanted to hook up no strings attached but that went out the window because of the huge cost involved and I would notice. After a period of time we started to put our lives back together or so I thought. I have since found out that he done it for a further 11 years and is still claiming he has never paid for a happy ending and cut the porn down to once a month. How can any man do something like that for 16 years and never end up paying.

He works, but in off time plays video games. These video games have mod sites that add on features, or scenes, and adult mods that grown men dress up their virtual barbies is what I call them. Will do for them, but not for me. Changes the rules of our marriage or he justifies his crap. Caught my husband lying so many times after I found evidence to confront him with. He also turns everything around on me. The 1st two years of our marriage was attacked by his ex-wife he was divorced from over 5 years her father sued my husband, but decided to wait until 2 weeks after we got married, and not within the 5 years he was divorced.

So I did soooo much court case work for him, and was a strain on our marriage from the beginning. My husband claims that everything I do for him is my own decision. I waited over 20 years to marry a 2nd time. I deprived myself of having things, just so my husband can have things. Debts that I did not agree to and tried to make money.

And many men will not cleave to their wives over their mommies, which makes it hard on the wife as surely she will never please the MIL. That goes for 1st, 2nd, 3rd, marriages and so on. And my MIL constantly pushes church on him, and me. When it comes down too it, HE IS the one with the problem! This was good for me to write, vent, and set in my heart to heal. Not true my husband has lied to my face and I have proof. My sister text me one morning and asked of my husband was still home, I told her he had just left for work glowing after an amazing morning of love making.

Well she screenshot a text he accidentally sent to her at 2: I recently suspected my boyfriend of there being someone else. My gut tells me its either a friend and texting emotional cheating or maybe someone online. I asked him about it he denied it. Not fighting or defensive. When I asked if I could see his phone to prove me wrong, he said no. He is very strong in all his beliefs in life and after an episode during his marriage, he now feels very strongly about not doing that.

He told me there is no one, he loves me and every thought and plan for the future is with me. That he wants to spend his life with me. It was a long and emotional conversation. A lot of good things came out of it. He has not changed his appearance, there is no change in our relationship, we have fun together. That confrontation was 2 days ago. Yesterday he texted with me all day. All about our feelings for each other which is difficult for him to do. Last night we had a great night. Not only did he use his phone in front of me, when he received texts he told me who they were from. And he left the room multiple times leaving me alone in the other room with his phone.

My boyfriend did same thing and when i confront him he denied everything and few days was extremely nice to me, i got a lot of his attention and he left his phone around me and leave as well. He was playing in honest guy but reality he blocked her number for a while to keep fooling me about. What do you think — is his text message enough evidence that he is having an affair? I probably be equally concerned about my husband breaking my nose. Regardless of whether or not cheating… What do you think about him assaulting you like that?

What would you tell someone in your position? What would you tell your kid, or a best friend you had when you were young, or your sister? What advice would you give? Not that u are but I feel when people hear my situation they pity me and that is not at all what I want in any way. Because I am a very strong willed woman and mother who has over come a lot of challenges and obstacles in my life and intended to keep trying until I can get through this one as well.

For instance my mother was a single mom of five children so at 16 I was made to marry a 27 year old man so that she could get help financially to pay bills and take care of my other siblings.. Unlike when I get abused I can go on and act like it never happened. They have no support and no place to go to.. I can relate to you on here my husband bought a new phone and left his old phone here. I have a three-year-old and told him I had postpartum depression. Ive been married for 12 years. He had his birthday in November, and went out for dinner with a few work mates.

He was first telling me he had gone home on the train to the Navy accommodation block. Then caught the train back in the morning to meet up for breakfast. After questioning him some more, he admitted he had stayed there the weekend in November. He was still referring to her as someone till I again questioned him.

I was then told her name was Judy. His story was still changing. He told me he asked her if he could stay, but quickly changed that to she asked him. He says nothing happened and he slept on the couch.

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I feel he had a one night stand, as he got all defensive when I questioned him, even asked me hed I had been having an affair, so put it back on me. I found out in October my husband was talking to another woman for 5 months. He said he was only talking to her notjing happened. I had to meet the other woman to get the truth in December and find out they had a realtionship. How can you talk to your husband about your feelings without getting into a fight? Come to find out they work together. What if I was told by a girl he cheated, then I found a message from him to that girls friend saying he wanted her.

My gut and the message proves he did but he denies it. I feel like my husband is hiding something. I found out in Sept that my husband was having an affair for 2 or 3 months. He did all of the usual crappy stuff like lying and sneaking around and sleeping with his phone. He admitted to the affair. He said it was a girl he went to nursing school with a few years before and he saw her at a store where they began talking. They hooked up in hotel rooms while I thought he was at work. He even had the gall to answer some of my texts while he was laying in the hotel bed with her.

He told me so. She was 20 years younger than m3. I find it incredibly odd that she just happened to move away right at the time I found out about the affair. I asked what her name was but he refused to tell me. After constant demanding from me via text while he was at work. We are trying to work things out but my doubts about this are eating me up. What do yall think?

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I am so sorry! My husband is also lying about cheating and I found him on the craiglist!! I believe he is cheating. I have lived it. My husband and I have been going through this for years with stupid messaging relationships and I always get tired of fighting and forgive him but it never stops it from happening again. He cheated on me when I was carrying our son but I married him anyway. Wish I had left after the first time…. These are good ways to find out if your husband is lying about cheating.

But since nowadays everyone has mobile phones, and you can just install a program for tracking his phone. Even if he deletes all of the correspondence you will see everything. The only reason he is still with me is for our kids. I think that is also why I stay quiet and let it happen. I afraid I have lived with him since I was 18 years I am now He hates when I have to go help my mom and says really stupid things.

You are worth so much more…. I wish you all the strength in the world.. Ellie thank you so much for your kind words. I have spoke to him and told him the things that bother me and he has been better attentive. What tracking program would you recommend to find out if your husband is lying about cheating? Talk to someone you trust. Get in-person advice and counseling. Talk to someone who knows you, or who is objective such as a counselor or therapist. Know that you can handle this! Whether or not your husband is cheating, you have the resources and strength you need to deal with it.

Connect with women who are strong and understanding, and find ways to get emotionally and spiritually strong. Find pockets of life and light, and stay there. Be wise, and trust that you are loved completely by Someone bigger and stronger than your husband. Great info here Laurie. I like the 5 points how to know if your spouse is cheating.

You should have a base expression of your spouse when the two of you are chatting together casual. Then if you want to know if your spouse is lying you can use that base expression when asking questions. In this way you have a way to check if your spouse is lying or telling the truth. He took that picture on the restroom and sent it to her there was no other emails to her anymore just that picture..

I go over his friends on Facebook and because of her name and phone on Facebook I find out it was a high school friend who is married and has a little girl.. I confronted him again he said they where just talking but he deleted all the messages.. I have found more messages from different girls on his social media he said there is nothing wrong in talking to girls but he deletes Athens messages if there is nothing wrong why delete them right.. I have deleted several girls from his Facebook but thereshe this one that he always request back his Facebook account was deactivatedoing for some time first thing he does is request that girl again and he hids it from his timeline..

Lucky me I ran across your website by accident stumbleupon. I have book marked it for later! But I did find a really interesting book about men who cheat, and I wrote this article:. There are some really interesting tips and ideas for how to know if your husband is cheating in the book I cite. The best thing is to get evidence, so you have something solid to confront him with. Hi, my husband and I have been married for a little over a year. We had seperated in September until November Long story short he left me 3 hours away from home and went back home, after he realized he screwed up he called crying.

Fast forward to April , I had recieved a phone call from a private number at maybe am from a female stating she had been screwing my husband. Well I broke it to her that I had just screwed him and it upset her so she hung up. Well he falls asleep and I went through his phone and found somethings from a female he said was like a sister. It crushed me and sent me into a very bad depression not only was my husband cheating but I had also found out 2 weeks prior that a good friend had been murdered.

My world was shattered. Well I broke it to him that if we are going to work he cannot hurt me anymore because if he does I will walk out and he can never get me back. Well fast forward to about 2 months ago. His job was hiring and I had a friend whom I had worked with previously looking for a job. She started work and it was all good except he started to care a lot more about his apperence. Wearing jeans, nice shirt, nice shoes and doing more to his hair. He has a very chill job and usually wore sweats well Up until 3 weeks ago.

He started to change, being very mean, being out late, changing his phones password, blocking me. All different types of things. They had been texting, talking on Facebook and God only knows what at work. Well I began to ask questions and my husband kept saying I was crazy and how I was always accusing him but I have always been right about him.

So I blocked her and him and I fought. When I questioned it he flipped on me. He then sent her text messages that he deleted before I saw them. Is my husband cheating? What should I do? Your instincts are dead on. You need to confront your friend and end the friendship with her as well. If you cant work it out with your husband divorce is a great option. Based on the information you have posted here ,your husband is a serial cheater. Men like to make u think that you are the crazyone but you are intuitive and intelligent enough to see what is going on.

It is up to you to love your self ,not lower your standards and find youa good man that will treat you like a queen. If you want to know if your husband is lying about cheating. My cousin lived with us for one year as house helper, after few months i suspected something between my husband and my cousin, like they sometimes look for each other without telling me the reason, one time we were on vacation and he went home because his reason was of that our business, and one time i saw him running after her when she was about to go home, and many more,.

After a year the girl was not with us anymore. But i am confused and i doubt hes lying. My husband and I have been married two years now. Together for about seven years. Before we were officially together he treated me like no other had before. I fully explained what I expected from our relationship and the balance of friends and romance time. We moved onwards from there, but it always felt like something was wrong.

It was as if I was a chore or a roommate. It made me so confused and depressed. I did everything for him. I told myself that it would go back to the way it was. Things would be okay. Maybe it was the slowing down of drinking? One night he was on call at the local tow company he worked for and a text message came in that he slept through. I cried and cried and then cried some more. My amazing man who lifted up my spirits like nobody else could, had shattered my world with an affair. I checked his Facebook page while I was at it. At least seven more affairs. We went to couples counseling to try to heal the wounds within our relationship.

It ended up being more like his therapy sessions. I was invisible there. There was and still has been no sympathy or compassion for my broken heart. Not from him or the therapist. Thinking that I had known everything now and maybe we could be stronger, I married him. He refuses to talk about it or even accept his own guilt. I just have to deal with it and move on. I believe that he has tried to hook up with this girl again. He truly thinks that with his past he should be trusted and that he needs to do nothing to fix this. I wish I had known everything before we were married.

I so sorry ur going through this. Like all women, we fell hook, line and sinker…They got us, but still wants to live the single life. If I was in ur shoes, I would sit down and have heart to heart talk with him. C what he wants and what u want. Even if there are children, no children or adult should live like this….

You need to find out…. Samantha- I read your story. You had faith, it was broken. You gave him the benefit of the doubt, that was thrown in your face. Are you waiting for a sex tape to arrive at your house? You seem like a kind trusting person. You would not do those things to him! Trust me, there is a man for you. Move on and leave him behind. I am in a VERY similar situation: I thought we were so perfect together, he was my safe place and my best friend. About a month before our 1 year anniversary I caught him lying about something.

I was so deviated. In that moment in felt like the man I had loved had just died.. I still feel like this is cheating either way. But my trust for him is gone, and so is the beautiful relationship I thought we had. Are you going to stay with your husband? My story is a little different. A married man took advantage of me 3 year ago. It started as normal as can be. We both live in the same building. I live for 39 he 23 years. I first saw him 20 plus years, never spoken to each other. Then about 4 years ago, I was telling a joke to my other neighbors and there he was laughing…I introduced myself to him.

There is and was nothing going on between us but a friendship…well I thought. We spent many hours talking and spare life stories.

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Little did I know, he was waiting for the right moment to assault me. U see I kind of know his wife, and went to high school with his sis-in-law. I could walk away from this and just take it a misunderstanding.. He is chronic liar and a cheater. I always ask him to take a test.. I waiting and waiting until Feb 21, I told his wife. His wife called me a liar and everything on the book. He was force to tell his wife and the polices his affairs, his one nightstands and what he did to me…After all this, do I regret telling his wife…NO.

First, I wanted to put him and every man like him in his place. And second I wanted to hurt him and if it means going through his wife, then YES.

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Half of my neighbors have known he was cheating for years. I in therapy…As far as I know the wife still with him, knowing he cheats. He takes care of her by paying her rent and etc. There are women out there like his wife who are blind and stupid…I was stupid for 3 years,,,where his wife over 23 years…why she and other stay is the answer I would like to know….

I was also taken advantage of when I was in a VERY vulnerable position, just experienced a lot of major trauma, huge losses my entire family , he hurt my grown son, etc. I was devastated from losing my whole family! He got VERY ugly, snapped, etc. It was at a horrendous time too when Is just been dealt another loss! How cruel I thought! I was doubled over in severe emotional paun, crying out to God! Sweet Pea, It gives me some comfort knowing I not alone. He is not a nice man.

It was all his fault. I come from a difference race. But I prove him wrong. And if hurting him means going through his wife I will….