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Big Girls Do Cry: A Memoir

Big Girls Do Cry: A Memoir by April Kirkwood. Paperback , pages. To see what your friends thought of this book, please sign up. To ask other readers questions about Big Girls Do Cry , please sign up. Lists with This Book. Jan 03, Trailhoundz rated it it was ok. It chronicles the author's life yes, whole life chasing superstar Frankie Valli, hoping beyond hope that he would marry her when in reality all she was was one of his many groupies.

Big Girls Do Cry

How on earth anyone in their right mind would spend their lives and ruin several marriages in the hopes Frankie Valli would marry them is beyond me, but the author did it. She seems to believe that he was "imprinted" on her at an early age and because of this, they wer This book was She seems to believe that he was "imprinted" on her at an early age and because of this, they were destined to be together. Instead of taking responsibility for any shortcomings, her infidelity, her ruined marriages It was hard to have sympathy and by the end of the book I really thought she was cuckoo for cocoa puffs.

Photo insert was nice. Oct 24, Caitlin rated it it was ok. The story is entertaining. The writing style and grammar leave something to be desired. Oct 04, Diane rated it it was amazing. Big Girls Do Cry is recommended for any pop music history collection and for fans of Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons, and presents the story of the Jersey Boys from the perspective of author April Kirkwood, one of their biggest fans. Unlike most fans, Kirkwood cultivated a childhood friendship which evolved into a scandalous teenage romance, then became a stormy decades-long affair.

Unlike most books about musical personalities written by fans, Kirkwood's intimate and long-lasting relationship Big Girls Do Cry is recommended for any pop music history collection and for fans of Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons, and presents the story of the Jersey Boys from the perspective of author April Kirkwood, one of their biggest fans. Unlike most books about musical personalities written by fans, Kirkwood's intimate and long-lasting relationship, which began when she met Valli at the age of eight and moved into a sexual relationship when she was seventeen, reflects a detailed, in-depth love affair with Frankie Valli that few memoirs could have duplicated.

All this is recounted in a sassy, honest story of how she pursued the man of her dreams and handled the romantic 'substitutes' for Valli throughout her life. Kirkwood followed her heart, she followed her dreams, and eventually she came to realize that this path was resulting in a one-sided arrangement with a famous personality who was already married, much older, and could offer her little in return.

Apr 07, April Helms rated it liked it Shelves: This was an interesting autobiography of a Youngstown woman who had a periodic affair with legendary singer Frankie Valli. She recalls her days as a child, going with her mother to Four Seasons concerts and meeting Valli afterwards. When she was older, she'd go back with him to his hotel room. Her infatuation and dreams of becoming the next Mrs. Frankie Valli would color her relationships with other men, none of which ended well.

She reflects on her weaknesses and on imprinting, which she says c This was an interesting autobiography of a Youngstown woman who had a periodic affair with legendary singer Frankie Valli. She reflects on her weaknesses and on imprinting, which she says can ruin any relationship. Kirkwood also goes into her background, growing up in blue-collar Youngstown, her up and down relationship with her troubled mother, and the more stable support of her aunt and grandmother.

This is a quick read, about a colorful and fascinating life. Today, she works as a counselor and as a speaker on relationships. By the time the story line finally accelerated, the book was then over. The level of drama in this novel is absolutely over the top and definitely takes away from the great plot. I love drama but not to the point that it becomes unbelievable, that makes the novel grow boring very quickly. The trilogy is already in the works so of course the novel left us with entire scenarios let alone questions that need to be addressed.

I will pick up the third book because I would like to see what becomes of the characters but I really hope the next book is more like the first. Mar 22, Tracy Darity rated it really liked it. There were sisters Isis and Egypt. Egypt was married to Isis old boyfriend but Isis seemed to still have feelings for him. Then there was Lorraine, who is a business woman but married to a man she does not trust and believes is cheating on her throughout the book.

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The two have a violent relationship but if they can just keep their hands off each other they will be alright. I am not down with the whole domestic violence thing but some people do live this way everyday.

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Then there was Jerome. This was the most bizarre part of the book, and deserves a story all its own. Now Jerome was a hot mess. He was described as fine and very charismatic. The type of brother that could pull any woman or man he chose, but it was men he preferred. The married and not ready to admit they are Gay kind. Without giving the whole book away, there were some areas where people and subjects were introduced and then forgotten about, like Tammy who refused to be the surrogate. What ever became of her and Egypts' friendship? Then there was the presidency that Lorraine was seeking.

I felt the blurb at the end of the book was a weak attempt to close the gap. And last, the saga with Isis and Egypt was not explained, just left the reader wondering how that all went down. What really would have set this book over the top for me, and I was actually waiting for it to happen, was for Leon to be revealed as Big Poppa. Now that would have been a mess.

Not sure that Mr. Feb 11, Reader's Paradise rated it really liked it. Let me first explain two things before writing this review: I was betwixed and between with do I read "Something on the Side" first or this one. It's a good thing this book is more of a companion book than a sequel or I would've been lost. Secondly I'm not into drama; however if it's done with believable characters' and situations I can stomach it because drama truly is a part of life. But this book was so over the top an Let me first explain two things before writing this review: But this book was so over the top and unbelievable I dreaded page after page.

After dating for five years with the promise of marriage Isis and Rashad go their separate ways and he uses Isis's sister Egypt to lick his wounds. This was so unbelievable to me I thought our friends and siblings ex's were off limits; even Egypt's dad couldn't wrap his head around it. At this point I was excited that the author added that to the book, because the first pages I thought all these people was oblivious to right and wrong. The actions of these three characters get more convoluted and crazy. Egypt is now married to Rashad and her sister Isis Rashad's ex-fiance lives in their home.

To take the drama to another level, Egypt is unable to have children and after being turned down by her best friend she turns to her sister. Yes; that's right the same sister, who dated and was engaged to be married to her husband. Isis says yes to be a surrogate for Egypt and Rashad, but she has her own motive for doing it. This is the perfect scenario for Isis because of course she believes she's still in love with Rashad and in her mind this child will make her fantasy family complete Isis Rashad and baby Rashad.

Once the baby is born we are surprised by one of the characteristic of the child which adds a question in the surrogacy which in turn heightens the level of drama. Big Girls Do Cry; had some crazy characters and I mean that literally. The author's purpose for writing this book I believe was to entertain and he has done that.

I read an article once where the author says "I wanted to write a book about ordinary people who have crazy things happen in their lives," I think that sums it all up. Missy Readers Paradise 3 book marks Jan 07, YupIReadIt rated it liked it. I love Carl Weber books, but this one was just okay for me. I like how he uses a different POV for each chapter to build suspense, but in this book that got annoying. I felt like I was standing on a ledge ready to jump and although the book didn't push me, it didn't convince me to live either. I started with ebook copy and read about ten chapters. Now listening to audio book to complete the reading.

This book is a trip and wondering if people are really like this There were some things I expected to happen, other things, threw me for a loop. The readings by the speakers on the audiobook was great various readers per each person and could visualize the scenes and hear these characters speaking in such a manner. I really enjoyed thi I started with ebook copy and read about ten chapters. I really enjoyed this storyline and read, especially listening to it on audio.

Adrienna Turner Mirrors Lie Aug 08, Tamara rated it it was amazing Shelves: Enjoyed this book, and the complete series! Nov 10, Natasha rated it really liked it. Full of drama to keep wanting to hear what's going to happen next! I'm ready to continue the story and hear what these ladies are up to. The ending took me by surprise and I love how it came together. I can't wait to read what's going on with Isis' crazy behind and to see if Lorraine can make a decision in her love life.

It'll be interesting to see what the author has penned for their futures. Mar 26, Brittany rated it it was ok. It was a disappointment. Why do big girls have to be seen as whores anyways? Definitely a page turner, because I wanted to see what happened in the end. The ending felt forced and choppy not as smooth as the rest of the book. Maybe I'll have to read something else to like this author but I doubt it. Aug 18, Vi Louise rated it really liked it. The premise is interesting with one sister asking the other to be a surrogate for her and her husband.

Interesting turn of events learning your so called BFF has sabotaged you. I will definitely look for previous titles and keep up with new ones. Aug 17, Classy rated it really liked it. This book turned out to be much better than I expected. I loved each character and I hope there is a sequel because I really want to know what happens with the relationship between Egypt and Michael. I haven't looked for the sequel, but knowing Carl Weber, there is a sequel. Jun 01, Thomasina Goss rated it it was amazing. I really like this book.

I will be read Torn Between Two Lovers. Jul 07, Shavonne rated it it was amazing. Th enjoyed reading this book. I liked it because it wasn't predicable and every page was interesting. Apr 18, Gloria Lyons rated it liked it Shelves: Not sure this is really my thing. The characters are pretty much universally awful and mean to each other.

I might read some other books in the series Feb 13, Sympa Ladii rated it it was amazing. Awesome book, Carl Weber never disappoints with his books. Jerome is so damn scandalous for doing what he did to Lorraine. I love me some Isis even tho she crazy as heck when it comes to Rashad and Tony. I laughed and yelled while reading this book, I wanted to kick Peter behind myself.

Next up Torn between two lovers Mar 12, Rhoda Dede rated it liked it. This book took me a while to read because the whole time I was reading it I kept rolling my eyes. It felt like the book was dragging on for no reason. Nevertheless I did enjoy the book and can't wait to finish the series. Nov 02, Tasha Milteer rated it it was amazing. I was so glad for Isis and Tony. Egypt and Rashad truly got on my nerves.

I read part 3 years ago, but vaguely remember- reading now! This was my first ever Carl Weber book and I am not disappointed! I will definitely read more of his works very soon. Apr 19, Nina Ponder rated it it was amazing. Nov 13, Monica Lashay rated it it was amazing. Jan 07, Tashema rated it it was amazing Shelves: This book was really good kept me turning page after page just to see what was going to happen!

However, the drama follows them to VA making it impossible to begin their new lives. Egypt is now married to her sister, Isis's, ex-fiance. Isis is still in love with her ex, even though she gave her sister her begrudging blessing. The three of them all live in the same house. Yes, it is a recipe for disaster. The topsy-turvy drama continues with the fact that Egypt is having trouble conceiving a child, and Isis is trying to break up the marriage and get her ex back by offering to be a surrogate mother--all along plotting to run off with her sister's husband and new baby.

Carl Weber introduces new members to the new chapter of the BGBC, including the hilarious new member, the very male, very gay Jerome, who is allowed to joined the Big Girls Book Club because his flamboyant ways make him just one of "the girls. I liked this book better than the first, but I do wish Mr. Weber gave us a bit more of the previous characters' stories in this book.

It was more of a spin off rather than a sequel in my opinion. Overall it was a fun read. Jan 03, Henrietta rated it it was amazing. This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers.

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To view it, click here. It was one of the best books I've in a long time. My favorite part was Egypt and Isis. Who was together for 5 years before Rashad moved to Atlanta for a job.

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After three years he came back a wanted to married Isis, but Isis was involed with another man. A man that was married and she didn't know until they almost eloped in Vagas. Then she told his wife who has 4 kids.

Anyway that was in Something on the Side. So she asked Isis to do it and Isis is excited because for some reason she thought that her and Rashad was going to do it the old-fashion way.