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When medicine no longer served to fight it, he fought it with his emotions. It was a struggle. He refused to have anything to do with it in the beginning. And when he eventually brought himself to speak to his blindness his words were bitter. But he kept on speaking and the words slowly changed into words of resignation and tolerance and acceptance… and, one day, very much to his own surprise, they became words of friendliness… and love.

His vision, of course, was lost forever. But how attractive his face became! When the Zen master attained enlightenment he wrote the following lines to celebrate it: I draw water from the well! After enlightenment nothing really changes. The tree is still a tree; people are just what they were before and so are you. You may continue to be as moody or even-tempered, as wise or foolish. The one difference is that you see things with a different eye. You are more detached from it all now. And your heart is full of wonder. Contemplation is different from ecstasy in that ecstasy leads to withdrawal.

The enlightened contemplative continues to chop wood and draw water from the well. Contemplation is different from the perception of beauty in that the perception of beauty a painting or a sunset produces aesthetic delight, whereas contemplation produces wonder — no matter what it observes, a sunset or a stone.

This is the prerogative of children. They are so often in a state of wonder. So they easily slip into the Kingdom. It was fun to read a chapter and a time and live with it for a while before moving on. Happiness is in the future. Right here and now you are happy and you do not know it because your false beliefs and your distorted perceptions have got you caught up in fears, anxieties, attachments, conflicts, guilt and a host of games that you are programmed to play.

If you would see through this you would realize that you are happy and do not know it. So it is no longer the real world that you interact with and love but a world created by your head. Mar 01, Jason rated it liked it. They're still quality perspectives to chew on, but there's little new content here.

Also, when compared to Awareness, I found he was less direct when talking about God in this volume. He does refer to the Kingdom of God and Christ, but he also refers to entities such as "Nature", so it's difficult to tell where he's coming from at certain points. I also do believe, and this applied to Awareness as well, that he takes detachment a bit too far in some instances. And this could very possibly be from my own misinterpretation of what he's saying.

It can sometimes feel like he's advocating a life of such solitude that it comes off as self-protective to make sure you can't be hurt. But, in general, his perspectives would benefit people the world over.


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I would recommend this book to anyone who enjoys spirituality and philosophy who hasn't read Awareness already. Sep 29, Davis Aujourd'hui rated it it was amazing. I am always on the outlook for other spiritual authors. Anthony DeMello is one of my favorites. I have loved every single one of his books and I own most of them. He speaks in a language that anyone can understand. He empowers his readers to discover the truth that they can shape their own reality through the power of detachment from the things of this world that are not real.

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He offers a key to the kingdom of heaven. It is a key that anyone can possess and can experience within their own lives. Heaven is within each and every one of us. This is my favorite book of meditations. It can travel with you anywhere. Each and every meditation will always speak to whatever you are seeking to understand. The seven dollars this book costs was the best seven dollars I have ever spent! The ultimate truth contained within this book is that the only the only way to go is by the way to love. Why would anyone choose otherwise? Aug 11, Don Geronimo rated it it was amazing Recommends it for: The way to love symbolises an ideal: Without attachment, without binding, without expectation, while humanity is imperfect and I can attest through experience this helps remind me that there is a better love out there.

Not the kind of love that separates -- that separates love between a lover and a friend. Rather, the kind of love this book tries to cultivate is the love of all equally, wit The way to love symbolises an ideal: Rather, the kind of love this book tries to cultivate is the love of all equally, without binding, without expectation, and most of all, to love one's self, for one's self is part of everything.

I found it a good supplement to H. The Dalai Lama 's [title: The Art of Happiness]. I carry this book and The Art of Happiness with me at all times now, to remind myself of the ideal I am striving for. Jun 07, roland simarangkir rated it it was amazing Shelves: Melalui buku ini Anthony de Mello membawa kita untuk siap mencintai, dengan cinta yang bebas dan menghidupkan. Dengan kalimat-kalimat logisnya, ia membeberkan berbagai kelemahan kita dalam berhadapan dengan dunia, dengan orang-orang yang kita sayangi maupun dengan orang-orang yang tidak kita sukai.

Buku ini memberikan penjabaran logis mengapa kita harus menjadi manusia seutuhnya, menjadi manusia yang bebas dan merdeka dari segala sesuatu yang dapat mempengaruhi perasaan dan pilihan kita. Menjadi Melalui buku ini Anthony de Mello membawa kita untuk siap mencintai, dengan cinta yang bebas dan menghidupkan. Menjadi manusia bebas berarti pertama sekali memahami dunia ini, memahami orang-orang, tidak terikat dengan orang yang kita sayangi maupun tidak terpengaruh dengan emosi yang diciptakan orang yang tidak kita sukai.

Menjadi bebas juga berarti memahami diri sendiri. Bacalah, nikmatilah dan siaplah untuk mencintai. May 12, PerceptionsChange rated it it was amazing. This book challenged my thinking around love. Being brought up from parents with the city, and a highly populated school and town, it felt like a dog eat dog world. It was recommended by an ex who struggled in his own way to find the way to love by letting go of anger.

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However this book will be appealing to this audience and also those who, although know deep in their gut what love is, find this an affirming read on love. It's a small book and great to carry around on the commutes into work.

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Good This book challenged my thinking around love. Good place to go back to when doubts of love sink in. Aug 28, Kenneth McIntosh rated it it was amazing. My psychologist at the time handed me this book when I was in a very bad place and said "Read this. Next to the Bible, this is my favorite book of wisdom.

De Mello combines the wisdom of Eastern religions with simple Christian faith, producing a feast of understanding that people of any background could benefit from. His insight is somewhat like Eckhart Tolle but much easier to grasp and apply. Feb 05, Jennifer rated it it was amazing. Sep 16, Edithandersen rated it it was amazing. A spiritual read for reflection. De Mello, a Catholic priest almost kicked out of the priesthood for his outspokeness died in his fifties.

I find his directness, no beating around the bushes approach refreshing. Whether you agree or not with his view, he will make you think--that is unless your mind on this matter is closed and secured with a padlock.

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This book will stay on my bookshelf, not donated or forgotten. Oct 19, Sylvia rated it liked it. I probably need to read this again - because of the size, this book came along with me for waits in airport terminals, a place and time when I might take offense because I'd spent hundreds of dollars to visit people I love and value. But in taking a step back and taking a look at my "attachments", I can see the author's point.

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He's accomplished his goal - I am re-evaluating myself. Jan 31, Linda rated it really liked it. Anthony De Mello's last book. It is comprised of 31 meditations in which he ponders the question of love. I am reading one a day at least two times. I love this little book which is small and fits in my pocket or purse. This is a book I will definitely keep with me and read over and over. It would make a wonderful gift for family and friends. Great food for thought in this little gem! Ok its recommended by me. Good way to end the day reading bits of this book. I got this book as a goodreads giveaway back in June and I put it on my shelf then went on vacation and forgot about it.

This week i rediscoved it. Mar 03, Mike rated it it was amazing. Anthony De mello brings to light that suffering is a choice. He easily explains that it is our unconscious programming that we follow that causes our suffering. I advise any spiritual traveler to pick up this book. Jun 28, Yulya Roesdy rated it it was amazing. The Way to Love by Anthony de Mello is truly inspiring. It is a book that can open your eyes to a different way of thinking and living. This book holds powerful thoughts and insights into love and life in general.

There are no discussion topics on this book yet. About Anthony de Mello. Anthony de Mello was a Jesuit priest and psychotherapist who became widely known for his books on spirituality. An internationally acclaimed spiritual guide, writer and public speaker, de Mello hosted many spiritual conferences. The few talks which he allowed to be filmed, such as "A Rediscovery of Life" and "A Way to God for Today," have inspired many viewers and audiences throughout the United St Anthony de Mello was a Jesuit priest and psychotherapist who became widely known for his books on spirituality.

De Mello established a prayer center in India. He died suddenly in His works are readily available and additional writings were published after his death. The book is a hands-on, practical exploration of types of prayer which the author has found to be effective and popular particularly with young people. John Callanan bases the content of this book on his own extensive work with youth groups and students, many of whom are finding real-life "fire and life-giving" substance very hard to find in today's world and Church.

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